I've been told I'm good in bed by several girls, not just sex but everything else in between mostly. I won't go into details (unless you want me to ).
The thing is when I go on a date with a girl, I try to escalate, and usually I get as far as her back in my room making out topless with me. This has happened several times and they hella enjoyed it, I can tell by the responses she gives as well as her physical actions (including when she leaves). Most of the HB's ask how many girls I've done this with before.
However, I find despite this the next day they act strange, almost like buyers remorse but maybe also slightly intimidated?
For example, above happened last night and before it we were sending extremely flirty texts, while building rapport at the same time. Our first date was on campus, and we walked around talking and eventually made our way to this place with stones set up in a pattern. Played a game, had some fun, back to my place, more chat, blah blah, eye contact, move in, game on.
The next day I saw her and a couple of mutual friends eating in the caf so I sat down, received a small smile and eye contact from her but my bud was being the center of attention. My body positioning on the table was crap, and she didnt try to engage in talking with me. Chatted up people around me instead. Later on v-ball intermurals, and we're on the same team. Lots of laughter and fun going around but she continues to try to ignore me. At one point we got a game winning point and I was on the sidelines with her and another friend. In my excitement I put my hands on her shoulder jumping and cheering, then to the person beside me. I felt her tense up, while her friend had a normal reaction.
Walked back with everybody to the res buildings, her's was different so I walked her back. Kissed outside the door and started talking about a date the next day, but she warned me she may be busy with hw. I didnt sense a hesitation but neither enthusiasm.
Texting the next day wasn't nearly as flirty as before, and when she said she couldn't go the text made me pause.
HB: Oh I have a lot of hmwrk tonight so I don't think ill be able to hang :$ but I'm sure we will see each other around on the weekend thou
I didnt like the fact she didnt suggest another date, seemed more like a "Ill talk to you if I run into you"
Me: Sure no problem, im a bit busy this weekend but we'll see if we can make something work
HB: Ok no worries I'm usually pretty booked on the weekend too!
That last text is a lie, she's from Ontario 2 weeks into uni there is a very low percent chance she is pretty booked every weekend. I could be overthinking it... but im pretty sure im not.
All help appreciated, not only on my specific story but in general