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Thread: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

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    Default Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    I need help with this 19yo HB8 I've gamed early on this year on campus. Long story short she fell bad for me after I ran the cube on her, time distorted and spent over 10 hours with her in 2 days. The 3rd day I was kiss closing.

    We started hanging out more and more and the touching and kissing hotter and hotter. But all of the sudden thru texting she told me she was a virgin. She then texted me and say that she get so horny around me. Today she text me that she wanna go to my house.

    Basically, I need you guys help to break things off with her without making her feel like crap and hating me. I just can't mess with her since she a virgin (out of principles I believe in).

    Should I tell her the truth that I wanna stop it because she's a virgin and how?
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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    Oh, no problem man. Would be happy to help you out. Send her to my house and she will never speak to you again.

    *slap you in the face*.

    Is she gross? What's the problem here, somebody is going to pop her cherry, break her heart etc etc. Why the hell shouldn't it be you? Go on, give me one good reason. But not a reason of her lack of experience either as with good lovin from you she will be a sex god in 1 month or less.

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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    She not gross, and I truly wish she hadn't told me that. I think it's more of a culture blockage. Taking her virginity by leading her on knowing that I'm not truthful (she asked me when we started hanging out if I was seeing other girls, and I say no) or honest with her is totally wrong, because f-closing ain't that big of a deal to me but to her that would be her first, and 9 times outta 10 she will remember me and I don't want her to remember me as the guy that tricked her then robbed her from it.

    Don't get me wrong I know somebody will pop her cherry sooner or later, but if they break up afterwards because it didn't work out is different than me leading her on and taking her virginity. Won't be able to look myself in the mirror, and be proud of myself.
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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    One of the differences between being a PUA and being a player, in my opinion. Kudos to you, buddy!

    You're just gonna have to be honest with her and tell her that you're not into anything for the long haul and that you're not ready for anything serious, etc, etc.

    You never know because she might even be ok with it and just wants to explore her own sexuality. However, I wouldn't take it from her, regardless =x

    Just be honest without being a d1ck.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    I think that you should just tell her what you honestly think, there's no going around it. You don't need to manufacture a breakup, just let her know what's up and she'll forever respect you for it.

    For future encounters, try to find out earlier. (definitely NOT by asking her)

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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    WTF! If nobody wants to have sex with her just because she is a virgin she will remain virgin forever! You have sex with her for once and she won't be virgin anymore!

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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    Nikee i think you like this girl as much if not less thats why you wrote about her here.bring her in.use a lot of foreplay make her really ... before you jump in go slow.
    Remember she is your friend..you may let her go.

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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    One of the differences between being a PUA and being a player, in my opinion.
    You understand exactly the way I feel. To me it's not about f-closing her, but rather taking that away from her knowing that I won't be around for the long term, and leaving her feeling used. I wouldn't care if she was already sexually active.

    I talked to her about it and things went pretty smooth as i was honest and didnt beat around the bush. Even though I can feel that her interest slightly dropped, I'm glad I stuck to what I believed in and encourage all of you guys to do the same, and don't let the game take away your core beliefs.

    Still able to look at myself in the mirror knowing I'm who I want to be. Thanks for the advice guys.

    Good luck.
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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Nikee View Post
    Don't get me wrong I know somebody will pop her cherry sooner or later, but if they break up afterwards because it didn't work out is different than me leading her on and taking her virginity. Won't be able to look myself in the mirror, and be proud of myself.
    I think the word you're looking for is "honor". I'm not an experienced PUA by a long shot, but I have been in that situation before. And I agree with your assessment.

    I would gently tell her the truth. Don't try to butter her up first, or any sleazy crap to "soften the blow". Just be straight up and honest. You never know, like Vicodin24 said, maybe she doesn't care and she wants you to pop her cherry. In that case, more power to you.

    If not, she'll remember you as the guy who could have taken it, but had the honor not to. Personally, I think that's far more important than adding another notch to your belt.

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    Default Re: Good game on hb8, but she's a virgin!!

    Taking a girl's virginity is not something that should be done lightly. People grow attached to their first lovers and they hold it with them forever. Everyone remembers their first time and everyone has nostalgic feelings about it. You don't want it to be a bitter experience for her, that's how you create bitter, man-hating women.

    For me, the only time I'd consider taking a girl's virginity is if I had every intention of being in a committed relationship with them. I think you did the right thing here and you should be proud of yourself.

    Note: Not really saying that taking it would have been morally wrong, just saying that you should have some principles and stick to them--regardless of what those principles may be.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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