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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    It is too early. Tried a kiss close twice and the 2nd time round I nearly saw an approval, but not yet.
    Still need to create more sexual tension!
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    To kiss close you need to warm her up.you must be engaging her.

    when you see her give her a compliment make sure its not too cheesed up.
    tell her about something you have passion for. why? you don't want to start on your girlfriend line.
    be brushing her arms to emphasize a point kinoing the whole time lightly.
    tell her see has an amazing energy.. when she (that line)


    take her number here if you haven't already, or stroke her hair make sure you are close to her then move in.

    if she turns her head follow her lips and kiss.just one or two 'massages' would be okay.I doubt she might pull away but check her comfort level first.

    this should not be pertinent as in two lip locks if you are alone with her or on a meetup.

    Heck she could even meet you somewhere during breaks.
    The engaging could be done anyhow but make sure your content is charged.

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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Hardrock I appreciate your help, but it does not convince me! Sorry, but I will follow Xaviers and Meteoras advice.

    Got another IOI today in front of clients. They were surprised, smiled and the female client even made a comment on that IOI from the NDR. I do not know whether this was intentional from the NDR, but she could have noticed that the female client is showing interest in me. Convo after the incident:
    Me: How could you do this in front of clients? I understand that if you did when we are alone, but come on in front of strangers. Is this you being jealous again?
    She: I am not jealous, but ok I will admit to being "the dog in the manger"! (Weeks ago I called her that and she remembered that pretty well!)
    He: There is more to it, and you did already admit to being jealous. But please not in front of clients.
    So I spanked her and left!

    Anyway I wish we were in another setting so I could deploy more stuff on her...
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Update of today... it was a really tough day
    The NDR and I started to talk about her relationship and she brought up that I had talked badly about her bf (that was previously when we were in the friendship zone). I had to admit to it... did not really have a choice, but then I turned it around a little bit with the BFD on how a man has to lead the relationship, but her bf cannot lead because he is so in love with her that he is afraid that if he leads that she will leave, because she will not be getting what she wants. Made a comparison that I am different in comparison to him... also me being wild and free and that the right girl would only be able to tame me, but at the same time that I have the qualities what he lacks... as in leading, supporting and giving girls a feeling of security.
    Nevertheless I had to push her away as she was thinking that I was making a move on her. She tried to get me cornered into admitting that I am after her, because previously some time back I had talked about how crap her bf is.... and I nearly saw it coming that she wanted to friendzone me.
    So I explained to her the reverse psychology thingy that if I really wanted break them up that I would have talked good stuff about him. She then asked me in a surprised way that I do not want to break up her relationship. Told her that I do not break relationships and that me and her are best friends. She said that the day will come when she will have to make a decision on whether to continue the relationship with him, but that it is not yet the time.
    She was not at all happy about me friendzoning her.

    Later on I texted her sorry and that I hope that she understands and that I did not push her away as a best friend. That I need to clear up my relationship and that I would like for us to stay as best friends. Wished her a nice weekend and kisses.

    That was a hell of an emotional rollercoaster for me... I do not know what she was up to today... but I turned it around and made it into a rollercoaster for her. I think that she will be very confused this weekend.
    Whatever the effect it will have I am happy that I remained alpha.
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Hmm..
    You seem too be less serious about the girl
    She fell more for her boyfriend at that moment because of the way you handled yourself.
    there may be nothing wrong.. but escalation in itself is very attractive.
    you may be playing it too safe.

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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    here I have to agree with hard rock on one thing. there will come a day when you will have to be honest with her about how you feel. if you play indirect for too long she will assume she has no chance at getting with you. however your going to want to get the bf out of the picture before you make your move. don't wait too long, but make sure the moment is right before you go for it.

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    I agree with you Meteora and in that case also with Hardrock. When the time is right I will go for the move... just at that moment it was not right. Forgot to mention that she did say something on line of that she would not be able to imagine a life without her bf. So I would've gotten a rejection big time. First I need to get rid of the boyfriend which proving much harder then expected. Anyway we will see what will happen tomorrow. Will see if my push had the desired effect.
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    another thing that is key with the bf destroyer is timing, something I've noticed is that it works best when she is fighting with him or upset with him about something. if she's content with her relationship, its next to impossible to split them unless you have more hours of comfort in than he does (basically unless you know her better than he does)

    if you use it when things are going good, the girl usually just agrees with you and you get nowhere (or if you go too far with your sarcasm, you may come off as an insensitive asshole)

    the bf destroyer isn't some magic pill that can separate any couple, it only works to solidify a girls decision to break up with a guy she was already thinking about leaving.

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    Well.... she has started to talk about leaving him... wasn't like that a couple of months ago! But as said to move too early would only blow my chances. Still need to work on her, but she did kind of disqualify herself in my eyes. She praised the fact that her bf is ambitious. Not that I am biased, but that is a totally blind ambition of him. Total AFC crap! But as she is an NDR that is what is keeping her with him!

    To establish more comfort the best friend is actually a good option. For this to increase I need to open her up more where she will trust me more than him.

    What really is strange with all those IOIs that I am getting I hoped to get further with her. It is making me think why am I getting all those IOIs. I cannot be misreading the IOIs. Does she have "the dog in the manger syndrome"?!
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    What really is strange with all those IOIs that I am getting I hoped to get further with her. It is making me think why am I getting all those IOIs. I cannot be misreading the IOIs. Does she have "the dog in the manger syndrome"?!
    some girls (especially girls like the ndr) (though I hate categorizing woman like that) will show interest in guys to get the things they want, when they can't manipulate you by just showing interest it scares them so they try to use even more interest to break you, the trick is stay cool and ride things out, eventually the girl will realize how poorly her "common tactic" is working on you and that will cause her to realize you're not like the rest (she probably has already realized that with you, but she's in denial because of her bf)

    it may be a long battle for you. its important to replenish your inner game by seeing other girls (girls like the ndr can sometimes effect your self esteem badly, because they never give you any satisfaction/victory, despite the appearance of it.)


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