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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    gaming girls who have boyfriends is never easy, going direct is suicide until after she leaves him. the bf destroyer should work if its used enough at the right times.

    the more experiences you 2 share together the greater your fractionation will become. some may say that attraction builds relationships, but i beleive that shared experience builds them.

    you have to keep spending time with her if you want to get ahead of her boyfriend.right now, indirect game is nessissary to acheive this without raising her defenses.

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    Meteora and Xavier, what is your thought on HardRocks advice?
    about stucturing your game around the bfd,

    i feel that game should be structured around value demonstration. that is that you have to actively display that you are a high value guy, the bfd won't work unless you are percieved as being higher value than her current boyfriend.

    the single most important part of game is dhv'ing. by displaying your value you create attraction.

    as for hard rocks thoughts on direct game, it can be useful and it often makes your game more efficient (in that you don't waist alot of time with girls who aren't as attracted to you)
    however, i beleive that indirect game is more functional at getting girls who aren't quite as attracted (or girls who have some critical factor raised, such as the boyfriend situation)

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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    HardRock do not feel offended
    Woah yur outta line!Lol but yh

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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    about stucturing your game around the bfd,

    i feel that game should be structured around value demonstration. that is that you have to actively display that you are a high value guy, the bfd won't work unless you are percieved as being higher value than her current boyfriend.

    the single most important part of game is dhv'ing. by displaying your value you create attraction.
    Although she is an NDR I think that I can DHV on her now with it working now. Somehow I am getting the feeling that after this Push Pull and the reconciliation she does see me of higher value now. She seems to really take my opinions seriously and understands that I do not take any BS into consideration. It is like I can start my approach from a different perspective now.
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    Update: She is happy about continuing her relationship again. This back and forth is driving me nuts. For the moment I will next her. When I see that things are going bad in her relationship I will reinitiate the BFD again. For now I will behave like normal which is like a HVM, but without engaging my interest. Otherwise I will go AFC.
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Update: She is happy about continuing her relationship again. This back and forth is driving me nuts. For the moment I will next her. When I see that things are going bad in her relationship I will reinitiate the BFD again. For now I will behave like normal which is like a HVM, but without engaging my interest. Otherwise I will go AFC.
    if she's happy with her current relationship, the bfd won't work... its just a cold hard fact.

    you may just have to shelf her until a good opportunity arises (like if she finally breaks up with him)

    I would keep her as a friend and keep building comfort with her while pursuing other girls. if she ever does break up with him then you'll be in a good position to seize the opportunity

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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    if she's happy with her current relationship, the bfd won't work... its just a cold hard fact.

    you may just have to shelf her until a good opportunity arises (like if she finally breaks up with him)

    I would keep her as a friend and keep building comfort with her while pursuing other girls. if she ever does break up with him then you'll be in a good position to seize the opportunity
    Yes I will keep her as a friend! We will see what the future will show!
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    Default Re: Need help with a potential one it is at work

    Ended my relationship with my gf the other day. Was not feeling too good that day at work. The NDR asked what is wrong so I told her about ending my relationship and I could see a big smile on the NDRs face. Total dog in the manger syndrome!
    Now I am gaming other girls which I will inform her of. Will see what effect that will have.
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