gaming girls who have boyfriends is never easy, going direct is suicide until after she leaves him. the bf destroyer should work if its used enough at the right times.
the more experiences you 2 share together the greater your fractionation will become. some may say that attraction builds relationships, but i beleive that shared experience builds them.
you have to keep spending time with her if you want to get ahead of her boyfriend.right now, indirect game is nessissary to acheive this without raising her defenses.