Re: She said "I don't believe you". WTF?!
Originally Posted by aussiearef
Well......I have been rejected for MY "nice butt" OPENER (30 min of sh!t testing then rejected on the close). I have been given a Kino grab for MY "I didn't want to lose the chance to talk to you." OPENER. I have had a girl offer her phone number and ask me to come with her for MY "I just ran over here to talk to you and lost my place in line" OPENER. I have done a bar pull for MY "Are you leaving?" OPENER. So yes openers are huge. Ignore them and you're screwed. Keep using the same opener over and over and you are bound to fail. Now you can salvage a bad opener but expect sh!t test fest which is what you're experiencing mate this is why you need to be more creative with your words and you will get farther and farther. Openers are not THAT crucial as gamebreakers (some are just icebreakers and go by uneventful but some are very eventful) in the grand scheme of things but they play a huge part and set the tone for the ENTIRE interaction sometimes, so ignore them and you will find yourself eating your own words. So try some good openers. So yes you have a point I have made extremely weak openers into good SETS but my best sets have always come from my best openers. Also my worst sets were always with my worst openers or the worst calibrated openers. It's just the name of the game man. Play like you want to win.
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