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    trouble38 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default New Relationship

    First post. New to game. In fact I don't know anything about game, I would love to study it more and if this relationship doesn't work out then I will.

    But for now I need advice on the relationship I just started.

    I asked her to be exclusive and she was very happy to agree to it, but refuses to add the relationship status on facebook.

    Also she has taken two trips without me since we started dating, one I could have gone with her but she didn't invite me. Normally I would assume she was cheating but being an IT professional I was able to gain access to her email accounts and her facebook as well as her text messages without her knowledge and can't seem to find anything to indicate that she is cheating.

    When I ask her why she won't put it on facebook her half assed explanation is that she doesn't like the whole world knowing her business and the people who matter will know that we are dating.

    When I asked her why she didn't invite me she said she just assumed I wouldn't be able to get off work and I explained that I could have and regardless she still should have invited me because Im her fucking boyfriend. She basically said too bad so sad and doesn't seem to give a shit.

    So what should I do?
    Thanks

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    The Red Baron is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: New Relationship

    You have to back off man...

    Everything you're saying is super needy. Okay, you read all her email and texts. You didn't find anything. So accept her explanation, and don't read her texts again.

    My girlfriend isn't facebook exclusive, doesn't mean I'm cheating.

    Pushing this hard is needy and shows low value. It makes you unattractive, makes her less interested and more likely to leave.

    Just, accept her answers and try to relax as best you can.

    Even the best of us gets jealous sometimes, but it's an insecurity and it's not attractive.
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    trouble38 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: New Relationship

    Ok so lets say I back off and don't push it at all, do I eventually end up with her actually wanting to tell the world how she feels about me and actually inviting me to go places or do I need to be looking for somebody else?

    From a psychology perspective I have no clue if those are behaviors that change based on her desire to be with me and her attachment to me or if they are just part of who she is that isn't going to change?

    Thanks!


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