I went out with a cute and very smart chick (33 yrs old). She initially came off as a "good girl" who took things very slow. We met online and my read was that she was a very dateable woman. She is smart, attractive, witty, and funny. She also had a good job as an interior designer, and was previously married at a young age, and was divorced over 10 yrs ago. We had 3 very nice dates w great conversation. The 1st date ended in a hug, and the 2nd and 3rd dates ended with a brief kiss on the lips. The dates were fun, and she seemed into me. I made an effort to let her chase me, and tried to minimize communication b/w dates. Basically, outside of setting up the date details, I did not contact her at all. She would basically text or initiate contact almost daily. On the 4th date, we went to a very nice Brewery for food and drinks, and we headed to another bar for a few more drinks. During the date, she was getting a bunch of texts. This did not bother me, but I asked her who was contacting her. She stated it was her ex from over a year ago. Apparently, he was still involved in her life bc of the dogs. He took care of them when she was out of town, etc. She basically told me he was texting her for a picture of the dog(s), and he knew we were on our 4th date. She showed me the phone, and he was asking for a picture of an 8 lb dog. I made a joke of it, and she laughed a lot. I excused myself to the restroom, and texted her asking for a pic of the dog. She was all smiles and laughing at the table. She texted me a pic of the dog with a big LOL. I took this as an opportunity to sit on her side of the booth and initiated minimal physical contact, which was reciprocated. Apparently, her ex texted her daily, and she responded minimally. She also told me he was loser who lived in his parent's basement, was a degenerate gambler, a bar tender, and a closet coke head. Her relationship w her ex was a fairly obvious red flag. Towards the end of the date, she dropped me off at my car, and we finally started making out and she let loose some. I ended up taking her home, where we had a few more drinks. She told me she previously thought I wasn't into her b/c I never made a move on her, and I rarely contacted her in bw dates. I basically told her, I wouldn't ask her out if I didn't want to spend time w her. She also told me she told her friends about me, and she liked my physique, and she liked how I was close to my family, etc. She ended up spending the night, and we hooked up several times. These were all positive signs. She stayed and cuddled until like 9 am the next day. We obviously both had fun. When I walked her out to her car, she thought we should hang out on Monday night (this was Saturday am). I said I would text her to set-up the details. We texted sporadically on Saturday and Sunday w me initiating the communication. On Sunday, I asked her about Monday night. She stated she had girls night on Monday, and she had kind of a crazy week, so she would have to get back to me if she can figure something out. We texted some more on Monday, and again I initiated the contact. She responded timely (within 10-15 minutes of every text). On Tuesday evening, I texted her and asked her when I could see her again. Again, she responded within 15-minutes. Her response was, I'm not sure. I have some things to figure out...Sorry. I basically asked her if she wanted to talk, and said I was pretty good at listening. She said no, but thanks for the offer. I ended the conversation by saying I'm here if you need anything...talk to you later. I hadn't heard back from her by Saturday, so I decided I would give her a call. We previously only communicated via text. I just left her a message stating, give me a call when you get a chance...talk to you soon. It's been about 30-hrs, and she has not called me back. Why did she get cold on me? What is she figuring out? What is my next move, if any? Is there any way to take back the control. I really think I'm into this chick, and all of a sudden she got cold on me. Any suggestions? Thank you in advance for your help.