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Thread: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

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    Default My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    I went out with a girl twice, f closed both dates. I was trying to get a fark buddy rather than a girlfriend, so I started sending messages implying that were meeting up for sex. I tried to set up the next date and when working out logistics of when/what time that works for both of us she responded, "what if i told you I don't want to have sex when we go out?"

    Obviously she's testing to see if I wanted more than that. I twisted her words around jokingly saying she has a dirty mind and that she just wants me for my body. No response from her.

    This girl is very sexually confident and is a HB 9. She texts dirty quite often which is why I sent those messages. I'd rather do casual dating w/ sex than no dating at all.

    Im thinking i should send her another message a couple days from now, something like, "I have you in my books for tomorrow night, 8pm. We're going to xxx for drinks." How does this sound? Keep in mind she never actually agreed to go out again.

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    Default Re: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    HB9s have access to a lot of men and so for sex super easily. They don't have to be your fark buddy unless you are a super hot man too. I guess she won't see you anymore.

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    Default Re: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    Yea this girl could get pretty much any guy. I am pretty picky but other guys (AFC's) are all over her facebook, calling her a perfect 10 and always posting how beautiful she is. But its clearly not a lost cause just yet. I see this as a sh1t test. She's testing my intentions and I feel with the next message it can be easily recoverable. Just not sure the exact wording just yet (or if this is the correct approach to solve this), which is why I'm posting this here. But no chance in hell I'm just gonna give up and not contact this girl again. That would be wasting a perfectly good opportunity for no reason, especially after I've f closed multiple times.

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    Default Re: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    Any comments/suggestions on my plan of sending, "I have you in my books for tomorrow night, 8pm. We're going to xxx for drinks."

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    Default Re: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    Nevermind, sent her that message, went out with her last night, then fucked the sht out of her again. She didn't bring anything up and neither did I.

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    Default Re: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    Yea some women just want something more solid than just a casual partner. But that doesn't mean you can't continue to have that kind of relationship with her. Most of them question your intentions sooner or later. You handled it well. Eventually she may grow tired of it and want something more out of it, but that's normal. Casuals can last anywhere from a couple months to a few years. No hard feelings if you part ways just cause you want different things. It's not like they're meant to last anyways. You can at least say you pulled that one.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: My lady friend thinks all I care about is sex...

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Yea some women just want something more solid than just a casual partner. But that doesn't mean you can't continue to have that kind of relationship with her. Most of them question your intentions sooner or later. You handled it well. Eventually she may grow tired of it and want something more out of it, but that's normal. Casuals can last anywhere from a couple months to a few years. No hard feelings if you part ways just cause you want different things. It's not like they're meant to last anyways. You can at least say you pulled that one.
    Yep that's what I'm thinking. Although I really don't talk to girls so I can say I pulled them, I don't even tell other guys that we both know that I've been seeing/hooking up with her. Just don't like to put my life on blast, especially when as of lately I've been hooking up with 3 different girls on a regular basis.

    It can get hard to juggle multiple women (even if they know we never agreed to being exclusive). They start posting stupid shit on my facebook and get jealous so easily. I ended up making it so no one can see what I'm tagged in, no one can post or see what others post on my timeline. Might as well just deactivate it haha. oh well this problem with this girl is solved lol


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