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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    one more thing the last example exchange with the second interaction should be taking into context.

    Jstrong and Bballking 's were not bad but in this dynamic and the way i framed example 1 interaction was the worst way any one could pose using emotionally charged words even.had to take bits and put out the example to indicate a point.

    That said saying it with a warm energy should not make you come off.you may engage later she likes you..

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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    Quote Originally Posted by rocoloco View Post
    what if she thinks that you were just saying that to gain the upper hand?
    Here's a life lesson for ya, don't waste your time trying to figure out what other people think. You may be able to read body languages, facial expressions, or gestures and determine an emotion, but you will never know what somebody is thinking. Mind reading is impossible. Generally you can influence emotion but underneath it that person could still have a wide range of thought processes.

    Do it anyhow. Girls love the game. At least the ones worth getting do. They want to be chased, they want to play hard to get, and they want to struggle for the upper hand. That's why the game veers when trying to lay 10's. Go for the upper hand, and hold a strong frame when doing it. If you are worried still, Hardrock has you covered. "Cool" communicates that your alright with it, "something came up" well, means something came up. If you wanted to, you could make a joke of it. "Cool, something came up, I couldn't figure out how to tell you so I'm glad you flaked first haha"

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    rocoloco is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    damn u got me, I usually do think a lot about people's minds and thoughts, so deep that sometimes even my friends wonder how did I come to that thought.

    this chick spinned my head a little bit with that pu**y and body of hers, so I've turned AFC for a while. not proud of it, it'a a new life lesson also. Will play it again naturally, funny and flirty, like I did in the beginning, with no fear and hopes.

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    rocoloco is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    update,

    so we haven't talked since that "flake" about two weeks ago. I don't want to initiate cause I did the last time, and probably I showed her a hint of neediness when I asked her twice to hang out.

    Now I'll wait, otherwise move on.

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    I'd send some sort of charged text (check the text game threads) but don't ask her out and don't ask her any question at first. Something letting her know you are around and having fun.

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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    are you sure?

    I would not hesitate to do so, if she offered an alternative day for a meet up, but she didn't.
    Before we had sex she was inviting me for a jog, coffee (i totally ignored the coffee invitation), and she also almost invite herself on the night she came to my house and we had sex. Sex was so much fun, she probably liked it, cause she texted me the next morning.... so don't know, seems like totally different person... haha maybe cause the school started

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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    could too long of a freeze out only make things worse? need some more tips, help the bro out

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    Default Re: had a great start, but now need help

    so yesterday I gave her a spontaneous call, said that I was out in a restaurant and something reminded me of her and wanted to say hi. We bantered for 2 minutes (about porn), I ended it on a high note. felt pretty good.

    So now what happens happens, I should wait for her to initiate contact right?


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