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    Default Re: i broke up

    There is a saying "Once a cheat, always a cheat". It wasn't 1 time, 2.5 years ago, it was countless times over 2.5 years.

    You 2 get back together, your teaching her that "Hey, I can fuck around on this guy and he will stay with me."

    Relationships need trust. She lied for 2.5 years. The most important thing for men in a relationship is loyalty.

    Block her number, block her on facebook, delete any texts, remove all photos from computer.

    Out of site out of mind. If she is inviting you over for dinner, she already regrets it.

    If you feel the urge to see her to fuck, I suggest rubbing one out. It will help with the urges.

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    lol, met my ex today...i was at the gym on base and suddenly i see her outside at the window waving at me. I don't react and walk back to the machine. A minute later she comes to me and tells me again about the doctors bill and that she needs proof i paid it. Then she tells me that i look good 'in this environment'. I said i will send her what she needs and ask her what she does here...she replies she comes here to work out. Then she walks away. Now, three hours later i receive a message on my phone: 'Mole (my nick) you are looking awesome as always'.
    Should i reply? And if so,what?

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    Default Re: i broke up

    Basically, the freeze out has been interrupted by today's incident..

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    Default Re: i broke up

    Quote Originally Posted by BigD80 View Post
    @BatMan
    Thank you for your encouraging words. I really appreciate it.
    I have those days were im not caring about her and even laugh about the whole thing. And then i have those moments, where it hurts. But you know what? It rather seems like my ego is hurt and the fact, that she "prefered" this other guy over me and rejected me over him. It's like she has hurt my pride and insulted me. She abused my trust( i didn't trust anybody more than her and her mother who stayed with us half of the time). They were my family and she took a shit on it. I never thought somebody could do something like that to me. Nobody has ever dissappointed me more than her.
    The girl at my job...i don't care for her. We agreed that this won't be something serious. Anyway, right now im bad! I see women in a totally different light. I will not put them on a pedestal anymore and i will not take their shit anymore. I don't take relationships serious anymore. At least right now i am not able to. This experience has changed me alot. I start to become an asshole with women.
    But anyway, happy Holiday!
    This is the right attitude to have right now. Meet other women and don't seriously date any of them until you've slept with quite a few. It will solidify this lesson of not putting any woman on a pedestal. It will give you the experience needed to date much hotter women with confidence. You don't need to do anything to spite her at all. Just live an Awesome life and cut off communication with her. You are way too good for her and she knows it already.

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    Here is the kicker...she just sent me this message:

    'Last few months showed me that you are the last ultimate genuine man on earthface.Pls stay that way. Whoever is gonna marry you will be the luckiest person in the world. I will always love you.'

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    Default Re: i broke up

    Sounds like she's a good manipulator. She's basically trying to get your sympathy and she thinks you'll just go back to her.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: i broke up

    So what do you think should i reply to this?

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    Default Re: i broke up

    You shouldn't reply to this.

    You should step back from the situation and figure out what exactly it is you want. Right now you're wavering between wanting her back and wanting to move on. The latter is obviously the healthiest choice, but it's you who has to decide what you want. But you can't keep proceeding without making a decision one way or the other.

    You should continue with no contact until you make that decision, because if you start communicating she has a chance to manipulate you like she is doing right now.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: i broke up

    Ok, thank you Duke. I will stay no contact.

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    Default Re: i broke up

    it starts to get ridicolous. Now she is texting me:


    'Mole, I was cleaning and i got comet in my eye. Where can i go now to get seen? Marcelaine scared me that i should go to see a doctor and i have no idea where...'


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