i broke up with my girlfriend after i found out she has been having an affair with another guy for the last two and a half years. we have been together for five years.
we talked on the phone several times since then. in the beginning she threatened me to report me to the police because i logged into her facebook account( to find out if she was cheating).
now she is sending me pictures of our recent vacation trips. i don't understand why she does that. I replied with a line i found on another foum.
so i wrote her: "We had a nice time together. Obviously we aren't right for each other but it would be nice to stay in touch as friends."
half an hour later she replies back: "You break my heart with this statement . I wouldnt call it nice time...We were together. And was great. I'm not half an hour later she replies back: "You break my heart with this statement . I wouldnt cll it nice time...We were together. And was great. I'm not right for noone and I told you long time ago sad but true . You deserve better"
obviously, my reply triggered something in her. but what to do next?
On wednesday she sent me two mails.
Number 1: "I miss you. 2 Moro I have dental surgery. Scared..."
Number 2: "And yes I am sorry ...and I will always love you . There is no reason not to, anyway.. You are a wondeful guy."
The only thing I replied to that was in reference to her surgery: 'i hope everything went well. Let me know if you need help.'
Then today she writes: 'i cooked this and that. Do you want some?"
I haven't replied to that one yet.I'm thinking I'm gonna tell her im out of town tonight so maybe another time.
Any ideas? I don't think I want her back but I want her to really regret what she did to me. Also I wanted to use a bf destroyer to spoil the thing between her and this reject. Which bf destroyer is advisable in this situation?