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    Default Dealing with chicks in the same friend group

    So recently I've gotten a little bit of a thing for this girl who hangs out with a group of my friends, she's good friends with one of my best friends. I've known who she is for a while but I haven't really known/talked to her her until more recently. Anyway, I've mostly only seen her in our group setting, although I did hang out with her one night and it went pretty well but she had to go home cause she wasn't feeling well.

    I'm just wondering how to go about this, because I usually only hit on girls who aren't close friends with any of my friends, it should be the same but I don't rlly want to make it weird for my friends... Usually I would just ask her out, but it seems weird to do that in this situation.

    So I guess any tips for building attraction (think there's a lvl of attraction between us), isolating from friend group, etc., that'd be awesome.

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    Default Re: Dealing with chicks in the same friend group

    I don't think it would be weird for your friends. Actually, they should be happy for you two about going out together.

    In fact, gaming in a group setting is easier assuming that your friends won't degrade you. Friends can DHV you, a friend group means you have high social proof, which will help you a ton to attract the girl. Just make sure you have to highest status in the group, that you're the leader.

    Isolating the target can often be a problem for the most of us, especially in a group setting. But to me, as hard as it looks, you should just go a little bit caveman, take her hand and isolate. Not advised to think too much about this. Being ballsy usually works.
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    Default Re: Dealing with chicks in the same friend group

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    I don't think it would be weird for your friends. Actually, they should be happy for you two about going out together.

    In fact, gaming in a group setting is easier assuming that your friends won't degrade you. Friends can DHV you, a friend group means you have high social proof, which will help you a ton to attract the girl. Just make sure you have to highest status in the group, that you're the leader.

    Isolating the target can often be a problem for the most of us, especially in a group setting. But to me, as hard as it looks, you should just go a little bit caveman, take her hand and isolate. Not advised to think too much about this. Being ballsy usually works.
    Thanks for the response. That sounds pretty good I think, I'd say I'm one of the leaders of our group and I think there is attraction there I just wasn't sure about how to pursue it. And yea I think my friends would support it, in fact I almost thought they were trying to encourage it.

    But that sounds good, making a bold move like that when we go out or something sounds good. I guess I should use something like that as a springboard for future romantic endeavors.

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    Default Re: Dealing with chicks in the same friend group

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    I don't think it would be weird for your friends. Actually, they should be happy for you two about going out together.

    In fact, gaming in a group setting is easier assuming that your friends won't degrade you. Friends can DHV you, a friend group means you have high social proof, which will help you a ton to attract the girl. Just make sure you have to highest status in the group, that you're the leader.

    Isolating the target can often be a problem for the most of us, especially in a group setting. But to me, as hard as it looks, you should just go a little bit caveman, take her hand and isolate. Not advised to think too much about this. Being ballsy usually works.
    I agree with this for the most part. It should be easier within a friend group and it is typically how people meet to start a traditional relationship. However, I don't believe there should be as much emphasis on being a leader within the group. It would probably work against you drastically if you were the whipping boy, but otherwise, if your an equal, you shouldn't need to display dominance.

    I've been in the situation of watching my friends snag up the girl's friends within our group while I lead and directed. Calling cabs, collecting people, telling people where to go. They will follow, but it doesn't mean the girls will necessarily jump your bones. They will however jump the bones of the guy who makes a connection with them. If you can do both, awesome. If not, stay equal with your friends and establish some rapport. Which it sounds like you may already have.


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