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    Default Help with setting up a date

    Ok so we're both in college and I've been trying to get her out 1 on 1.

    so heres how the text convo went:

    Me: Hey! I've been wanting to get some coffee again at Starbucks. I was thinking early next week! Tell me you're in!!.

    Her: Coffee? of course ill come if I'm free when you're going.

    Me: Awesome! i was thinking go going around 5. Let me know if that works.

    Her: what day?

    Me: Oh, tomorrow. (1:30pm)

    Its not 11:18 pm and still no response... any insight would be greatly appreciated. thanks

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    Default Re: Help with setting up a date

    Something to keep in mind is when you're making plans, tell it in it's entirety. Also, be different.

    Her: Coffee? of course ill come if I'm free when you're going.
    PUA: Solid. Tuesday at 5:03 works for me, come thirsty.

    I like to say "works for me" because it comes off as if BOTH of you are working around YOUR schedule... verbiage means everything.

    I suggest picking an actual day (like Tuesday in my example) instead of "tomorrow". Reason being, tomorrow is too eager unless the Vibe is there and you know she's free. You're making yourself look busy by picking a day or two away.

    As far as her taking hours to not text you back... she exited the thread. I wouldn't double text (never good). Best thing you could do is plan to go to Starbucks at 5 with or without her. Yes, without her! Take a laptop and study some PUA material for an hour or two all the while sipping a pumpkin spice latte because they're dope.... if you don't hear from her.
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    Default Re: Help with setting up a date

    OK so she just replied this:

    Her: I just saw this. I'm usually still at the gym around that time. Is there another time or day?

    What should I reply to this? Maybe just : Ok! Whats good for you? whats your schedule like?

    She seems pretty busy (legit)

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    Default Re: Help with setting up a date

    Yea she's not feeding you bs. I wouldn't ask her "what's good for you" because again, you seem like you have no life haha. Like I've said, pick a day, time, and location. She interested, so don't worry about that. Another point I'll add is that if you let her pick the day, time, and location, you're buying into her Frame..... lead her, not the other way around haha.
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    Default Re: Help with setting up a date

    ok so i texted her this:
    Me: Oki! Well wednesday after 6 or friday afternoon works for me.... whats your schedule look like?

    HB: Wednesday after 6 should be fine. Fridays I'm done with class at 2, but also have a break between classes from 11 to 1.

    Which should i pick? i feel like she's leading me to take up on friday... what you guys think?


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