Alright sorry in advance boys, this may be a little long. I hung out with this girl nearly every day my freshman year of college. Slept over repeatedly but only on the futon. She had a bf at the time and no sexual advances were made by either of us, not even talked about. Any who, last day of school she decides it's time. Unbeknown to me, she was making moves. Eventually, she made it clear, "I'm going to get naked in bed, you need to be up here with in the next 30 seconds." My friend and her roommate were in the room, she didn't care, she wanted it... I didn't give it to her. Talk about your chumps.
She left school, visited once for a weekend, I got drunk and stoned the whole time and hardly acknowledged her. We hadn't talked for about 4 years and I decided to reconnect with her.
I'm going to visit her for the weekend and would prefer to not make this a purely friendly visit. However, I'm unsure of how to go about it. Should I re-establish a connection early and make my moves Friday night? Or do I feel out the situation, get a grasp for her mindset and try to turn the friendship into an attraction again (one she clearly had); go for the lay Saturday/Saturday night? How to play this one?