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    Default Reconnecting with old friend, how do I lay her?

    Alright sorry in advance boys, this may be a little long. I hung out with this girl nearly every day my freshman year of college. Slept over repeatedly but only on the futon. She had a bf at the time and no sexual advances were made by either of us, not even talked about. Any who, last day of school she decides it's time. Unbeknown to me, she was making moves. Eventually, she made it clear, "I'm going to get naked in bed, you need to be up here with in the next 30 seconds." My friend and her roommate were in the room, she didn't care, she wanted it... I didn't give it to her. Talk about your chumps.

    She left school, visited once for a weekend, I got drunk and stoned the whole time and hardly acknowledged her. We hadn't talked for about 4 years and I decided to reconnect with her.

    I'm going to visit her for the weekend and would prefer to not make this a purely friendly visit. However, I'm unsure of how to go about it. Should I re-establish a connection early and make my moves Friday night? Or do I feel out the situation, get a grasp for her mindset and try to turn the friendship into an attraction again (one she clearly had); go for the lay Saturday/Saturday night? How to play this one?

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    Default Re: Reconnecting with old friend, how do I lay her?

    I've seen some of your posts so you obviously know what you're doing and how to get girls so I'll answer what I would do pretty briefly. I would treat it similar to a first date. If you're going out, then go for a date like drinks and a walk or something. If you're not going out, try a movie at your/her place again with drinks. Key is to get her buzzed so when you make your first move you have plausible deniability (blame it on the a-a-a-a-alcohol).

    I dont think I have to tell you the obvious but just in case, kino a lot. Start with a big hug (kiss on the cheek if thats your style). Lots of shoulder/arm touches when you or her laugh. Go for hand hold, arm around her, touch her face, make out, etc.

    Dont make your move too early on, but if it feels right go for it. By that I mean if she is showing IOIs and just seems into you.

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    Default Re: Reconnecting with old friend, how do I lay her?

    You need to take her on meetup get back to the place you want close and then escalate from there.start kino really early amplifying attraction throughout the night.Once shes had a good time and turned on by presence of att she may be likely to go with cuz its in the moment.
    be safe!!Peace

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    Default Re: Reconnecting with old friend, how do I lay her?

    Hey thanks for the responses guys. Went down there and she had a much cuter friend I wished to go after. I was torn but decided to stay the course. Mistake. Tried to escalate Friday night. Hard shut out. Saturday night, boozed up a little too much, and got in a fight with her. She was actually hitting me in the face. Got booted out of her apartment at 4am and slept in my car the rest of the night. Sh1tty weekend, decent story.

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    Default Re: Reconnecting with old friend, how do I lay her?

    May need to work on escalation


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