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Thread: is my Girlfriend a slut?

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    Default is my Girlfriend a slut?

    so I've been dating my my girlfriend for about 8 months.
    in the course of this time I've found some things that bother me a little bit.
    I know a lot of you are more experienced and have been with many more women than me.
    so i would like to ask your opinion on weather you think this girl might me a slut.

    shes 19

    i made a list :


    shes a slut----------------------
    1. was fairly easy to sleep with her.
    2.she said she would do anything in the bedroom that wasn't weird.
    3. she watches porn
    4. before we met she was on a dating site.. she would contact 30 year olds.. she was 18. i have no idea what her intentions were.
    5. she admitted to masturbating sometimes... guess thats normal
    6. friends said she gets frisky when drunk
    7. when she dances with me she grinds a lot.. guess she does/did that with other guys too..
    8. recently found really sexy pics she sent to a guy in the first month we started dating.. she claims it was a fling but they never slept together and she chose me over him.
    9. she says drinking from a penis straw is funny..
    10. her friends are perverted
    11. she dated a 30 year old

    shes not a slut----------------------------------
    1. claims i was the first guy she ever gave a blow job to
    2. she goes to church
    3. she didn't know how to put on a condom
    4. says only slept with one guy before me
    5. claims shes never kissed a random guy in a club
    6 she dresses classy ..when she goes out with me anyway..i dont know how she dresses when she goes out with her friends.
    7. she says shes in love with me and did not expect it.
    8. she implied being in a relationship with me 4 months in.


    you're probably thinking.. whats wrong just enjoy.. but i cant enjoy a woman who i don't respect.. well dump her then.. well maybe, but not 100 percent sure. my experience is limited so i don't know if most women are like this or worse i really dont know.

    so what do you think?
    and what would you rate her sluttyness on a scale from 0-100
    100 being super whore

    thank you for your time!

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    Default Re: is my Girlfriend a slut?

    Tbh if you thought she was a slut before dating her why would you follow through? And secondly it's up to you to decide if she's a slut/ if you want to break up or not. You don't need other people opinions on stuff like that... You're a man, YOU SHOULD DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT TO DO BY YOURSELF.
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    Default Re: is my Girlfriend a slut?

    Quote Originally Posted by donerro View Post
    9. she says drinking from a penis straw is funny..
    I laughed when I read this, so I guess I'm a slut!
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    Default Re: is my Girlfriend a slut?

    We've got a classic "daddy issues" case here. No 18 year old would date a 30 year old man under normal psychological conditions.

    Now let's not go calling her names, but yeah it looks like a troubled girl. And it could be just me, but I don't buy a single thing you've listed under "she's not a slut".
    If I was wrong in my judgement than she's just a huge attention seeker that likes to act sexual and invent stories for attention and to look cool.

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    Default Re: is my Girlfriend a slut?

    If your definition of "slut" is "she hooks up with other guys while she is in a relationship with me". Your gut will tell you. Always go with your gut, even if your gut is not 100% correct, the very fact that you have a "gut" feeling, it is telling you that something is off.

    I read your list of slut/not a slut. Honestly, it doesn't matter what she says, it is what she does. Always watch someone's actions, not just your GF, but anyone, relative, coworker, business partner, always watch their actions, that is the truth, not what they say.

    Now, about your GF, don't dwell too much on her past, it is in the past. She is 19, I would bet that the 2 of you will not get married. Your both young and hopefully having fun. If she gives you more joy than pain, keep enjoying it. If she starts to bring more pain than joy, cut her loose.

    Just don't get her knocked up dude.

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    Default Re: is my Girlfriend a slut?

    Solid advice guys!
    i will definitely watch out for the pain to joy ratio.

    thank you!

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    Default Re: is my Girlfriend a slut?

    How old are you? If you are close to the same age stop wasting your time in a relationship, have some fun LOL.


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