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    colorjockey is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default The College Girl Jealousy Problem...

    Now, long story short:

    I went out this past weekend with a girl from my college classes, had an amazing time. She's a fun, outgoing, humorous girl who (judging by what she says) likes to explore and get to know different people. She's new to the country but already fitting in quite well. I availed the opportunity and asked her out, and I'm proud to have had a chance at getting to know her.

    Problem: Today, I saw her for the first time in class after the date. She was acting very peculiar. She went around and talked to every guy in the class (and girl) and saw their work and spent a considerable amount of time with this one dude beside me and then went back. Ignoring me.

    Next class she kicked it up a notch. When I went over, she started acting protective. Always resisting and saying 'That's not funny!' whenever I playfully teased her. Here's the fun part. This other friend of mine who sat right across from me asked her if he could see her work. She got up, went around and sat with him, in front of me, facing him and flirted. Even gave him her cellphone to play with. I couldn't believe. It was actually quite pathetic the way it was happening. Like, "Why are you making it that obvious?" LOL!

    Anyway, I ignored. The guy she was talking to was clearly not interested as he left soon after.

    I'm intrigued. I know this question gets thrown around a lot but what I want to know is, Is she worth pursuing? I know she's testing me, but how should I respond? I was thinking of sending her a text a little later saying something corny like "Hey you! I like your face, and miss it!" Would that make me seem eager? Or is that manly? So she knows I'm interested. But is she really testing to see if I've got balls? Or she trying to throw me off?

    I have other options. I'm going out with another girl this weekend but now that this one is playing hard to get, I can't seem to get my mind off her and the same flirting-jealousy scenario keeps playing in my head.

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    Default Re: The College Girl Jealousy Problem...

    Slut... KIDDING!
    I would either ignore it or punish it. If you have the chance punish, alienation of affection works on every woman to some extent. However, if the opportunity doesn't come up then go on being a guy with high value & standards.
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    Default Re: The College Girl Jealousy Problem...

    Jealousy works 2 ways. If it were me id do the exact same thing she's doing. Talk to other girls in the class (preferably more attractive than she is) and flirt, get their numbers, etc. As I'm sure you know, class is the easiest place to get a girls number. "Lets exchange numbers in case one of us misses class". I've never been turned down that way. Or even just give then your phone and be like "here put your number in".

    Other than doing the same, don't send that message. It comes off as needy and won't help the situation. She probably doesn't think your enough of a challenge (we want what we can't have) and she thinks she could have you if *she* decides she wants you. Which would explain why she no longer is flirting with you in class. You want her to question if you like her, not the other way around. If she does have this question she'll start chasing you. I'd ignore her behavior and then when you want to, go out on another date with her before someone else in the class snatches her up.

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    Default Re: The College Girl Jealousy Problem...

    I was thinking along the same lines. I only see her 3 times a week. The other sees her 4 times a week.
    Here's the thing:

    I tried to playfully tease her as always by taking her phone away, she whined. While she was flirting, she blatantly gave that other guy sitting across from me her cellphone and let him play around with it, look at her pictures. He called her over and she yelled, "I'll be right there!" Like...she wanted to me to hear it. It pissed me the hell off. lol

    I don't want to ignore her but maybe give her the cold shoulder? And I've got another date with a different gal this weekend.

    Also, if I were to blatantly mention in front of her that I'm going out with someone else now, would I get the same results as with Dating Preselection? Not sure if I'm phrasing it right but I'm sure you pros get the meaning...


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