Hey fellas, just got back from out of the country, hope you've all been doing well in your conquests.
Ive been back in Canada for 4 days but have resumed gaming and have a field report for you
Ive kept in contact with a former flame while away who happens to have become a totally platonic friend of mine. Its a relationship we are both comfortable with. We made plans for when I arrived to get together for drinks and I told her to bring friends. She mentioned a new friend of hers that she thought Id hit it off with, andseemingly did some groundwork for the cause.
Last night rolls around, and none of my male friends were interested in heading out. Rather than staying in alone and sulking, I decided tk head down and meet up with them alone. I got to the bar and the group of 4 girls were sitting with 4 guys. I walked up with a smile and a drink in hand, went through the motions with my friend and introduced myself to the others. First point guys, confidence. I walked in without the slightest apprehensiveness.
To my surprise,there were two single attractive females in the group. I played it cool all night, mostly flirting and chatting with the newest one rather than the one I was intending on meeting. When opportunity presented itself we had great convo and banter, she paid me several compliments on my watch, jacket, etc. I befriended the guys in the group as well and we were all having a great time.
Now another important point was that these guys were trying to work on all the girls in the group as well. One thing Ive always noticed that works for me is that I allow this to happen, never shooting a dirty look or clamoring for attention. I think it shows confidence and has definitely worked for me in the past.
All end up walking to the next bar and head inside. This is where I was presented the opening I needed. The main target grabbed all our jackets for coat check, and when she returned with the tickets to distribute I told her to hold onto mine with a wink and a smile. You should have seen her face light up. We all continued having a great time, a couple of the guys left which left myself and the guy Id befriended most. I shared my time around with all the girls, chatting, dancing, and just being sociable. I also ran interference on guys they didnt want to talk to. Scored big points there. It came time to leave and myself and the 3 girls left my friend and the guy there. I made sure the other two girls got home safely and then the original target and I came to my place.
Easily f closed, had great banter, and had a second round in the morning. Today was no different, I brought my friend and the guy to get their cars, and the four of us went to lunch, flirting and having fun all day. After bringing everyone else where they needed to go I briught her home. This is where I dropped the ball.
For some unknown reason I said I dont want your number right now but if yiu want mine just get it from our mutual friend. She asked "so I guess ill see you when I see you then?" And I said thats not what I meant and we would talk soon. She kissed me and got out of my car.
Now this is a girl that Id love to make a regular. We definitely hit it off and she even made some comments such as "im glad x found me a guy to hang out with" and suggested some things we could do which led me to believe shes interested.
Heres my conundrum. Ive always lacked the ability to followup or maintain things. Im not saying I want her to be my girlfriend or snything, but definitely want to hang out again. I'm thinking that she thinks im uninterested. Any ideas on how I should proceed ie how to establish contact, when I should do so, etc. I have some other girks in play but shes definitely a frontrunner. Its amazing how often I can f close but am clueless with any type of progression otherwise.
Glad to be back gents, hopefully some of you can take some pointers from my field report and others can give some advice. Happy hunting