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Thread: Help with HB8 bartender

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    Default Help with HB8 bartender

    Hi brothers, New to PUA first time poster 25 years old and just started going out to bars/clubs and actually working on my game

    So I head out to meet my brother at the bar and i burst in the room big grin on my face as usual. This HB8 begs me to sit next to her. Shes pretty drunk but shes feeding me IOI's and plenty of Kino I N-close and head out. Since I was already occupied for the night.

    Drop by bar few days later shes working day and only person in bar is us. I run the Cube on her she eats it up. She gives me some free shots sits next to me at bar and has me rub on her back. I drop Suave Kino's 5 kiss close on her she is all bubbly and loving it. regulars and owner show up she gets back behind bar I chat with people for a bit she tells me to call her later.

    Text her after work if she wants to get some drinks or drop by. No response entire night / next day. My text game isn't all the good but I'm not gonna spam her or pray on a response and have it ruin my night but it makes me wonder if shes leading or trying to play some game.

    New to this and would appreciate help from the experience here. I feel the problem is I failed to escalate and perhaps her interest faded?

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    Give it a couple of days and drop by the bar again. Don't act phased whatsoever, remember she is just an option. Be friendly and flirty with her. However, she will not get your attention that night. It seems your game is tight enough that you should be able to pickup another girl at the bar. Trigger her jealousy, I guarantee you she will text you afterwards.

    Bartenders and hired guns really need to see you as a high value alpha guy, otherwise you become like the rest of the guys asking her out. When she does come to you, be indifferent. Push pull, but don't ask her our right away. Remember, you don't want to fall into that trap again.

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    Debating leaving an open ended text "omg crazy night at the game today." which works since it was and perhaps keeps her wondering. Then if she reponds just ignore the reply? Tryin to win the text game here.

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    she won't respond is my bet. You haven't built yourself up enough.

    It used to happen to me all the time. I would feel awesome after n-closing the hot waitress and bartender and would never get a reply. So I changed it up a bit, now I get much farther.

    But try whatever you feel comfortable with.

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    Your initial advice seems best Fuser so I'm likely to go with that. Essentially was the plan I had going into the forum just wanted opinions of those more experienced in the Sh1t games women play.

    Again pretty inexperienced at the game but the advice I've seen various posts and escalation threads has given me some solid groundwork.

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    Update:

    Fark it texted her

    "Tequila body shots tonight with friends. Forgot to invite you. You aren't that crazy anyhow"

    /popcorn?

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    IGNORE....or one line answer at best. lol
    let us know how it goes dude.

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    Default Re: Help with HB8 bartender

    Kiss closed in a 3 set at local bar. Bridge setup to go out Friday night when the bartender is working. The plot thickens.


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