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    solid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default okay, so phone game. i dont know if this is good or bad. need big help!

    so ive had a fling with this girl over the summer. flirty as fark. but we never got time to meet up. yes she is a onitie for me, a special one... anyways we had a fling last summer texted alot and were intrested in each other but never got to the point. my friend started to see her but she didnt want to have anything with him they just made out at a party so whatever i guess. i confirmed she wanted to friendzone me here so i friendzoned her instead cause i'd think it would be better then hear the words from her mouth. i havent talked to her much lately but im still feeling this jealus sick feeling everytime i hear she done something fun etc.... we actually started to talk again and i told her i didnt wanna text her. ( she always been clingy on text always wonder why i almost never answer her and why its taking so long on text. and she always want me to attend on parties with her etc) anyways we started talk again more on the phone now cause ive just been texting to much with her. so i talked with her about 40 minutes whats going on in life. we talked much about our friends and how thing is with eachother and that my friend that liked her is so not smooth with his ways. and much much about our friends relationship to others... to be honest i enjoyed talking to her she even laughed many times but im not sure it was good subjects to talk about. i wanted to tell myself fuck it im just gonna tell her that i really wanna meet her. but i didnt, i cant take LFBJ i hate it... we are gonna phone much atm i guess instead of texting and i really need advice on this shit. what really do i talk about to build attraction i cant talk about my friends and her ffriends and see what is up then it feels like im just digging myself deeper in the friendzone or text buddies which i fucking hate. it happend so many times i actually thought of " suicide " not really take my own life. but it wouldnt mind me if i died right here right now. please help me with this i would do literlly anything to even get a kiss from this girl. i know it shouldnt be a prize for me to kiss her but it would mean the world. thanks bye

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    easyflow is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: okay, so phone game. i dont know if this is good or bad. need big help

    Dude, you have totally messed this up. First off, a "Fling" means actual intercourse happened. A "Fling" is NOT sending texts or sexting. You have to insert your penis inside of her to have a "Fling".

    She is not into you Bro. You are her "Gay male girlfriend". Talking on the phone with a girl for 40 minutes is putting yourself in friendzone. Texting = friend zone. Use the phone to set up dates. Max 5-10 minutes. In and out. Always be the first to get off the phone.

    I don't know if you can recover from the damage that has been done Bro.

    At this point, you almost want the LJBF speech, so at least you can tell her "I already have enough friends, I want to take you out, but if you don't see me that way, call me when you change tour mind". BANG. Delete her number, and move on. If she calls, make a date, if she says LJBF, tell her to call you when she wants to go out on a date.

    Go out and meet other people.

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    AlexandreUU is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: okay, so phone game. i dont know if this is good or bad. need big help

    dude either ask her out already now asap to the movies or something or just move along to the next girl cause the way you sound its like you're way in too deep emotionally wise to the point that anything off that you anticipate might cause you even more sadness. so, come on, do your thing. ask her out now. dont think about it. just be like hey this really cool movie is playing and i dont wanna see it by myself, id really want you to come with me.

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    solid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: okay, so phone game. i dont know if this is good or bad. need big help

    Quote Originally Posted by easyflow View Post
    Dude, you have totally messed this up. First off, a "Fling" means actual intercourse happened. A "Fling" is NOT sending texts or sexting. You have to insert your penis inside of her to have a "Fling".

    She is not into you Bro. You are her "Gay male girlfriend". Talking on the phone with a girl for 40 minutes is putting yourself in friendzone. Texting = friend zone. Use the phone to set up dates. Max 5-10 minutes. In and out. Always be the first to get off the phone.

    I don't know if you can recover from the damage that has been done Bro.

    At this point, you almost want the LJBF speech, so at least you can tell her "I already have enough friends, I want to take you out, but if you don't see me that way, call me when you change tour mind". BANG. Delete her number, and move on. If she calls, make a date, if she says LJBF, tell her to call you when she wants to go out on a date.

    Go out and meet other people.
    actually makes me fucking realize. she's got a hot cousin actually gonna call her. truth is hard but payful. and in my country " have a fling " is when you and girl has interests in each other.


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