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    Default Any Chances recovering from this?

    Im currently in a friendship with a female that has a health illness. the thing is i care about her deeply. we arent together but i will say something is there. awhile ago she gave me her number and it was all cool.......unfortuna tely :faceplam: i screwed it up because i asked her a question and she got quiet on me...this lead to me sending her 3 texts because i was under the assumption, i said or did something wrong.... told me about it and i apologize (the texts) and we went back to kicking it texting, and pms online.... she was under the intrepretation that i wanted a relationship but honestly i dont see it with her.....

    so recently she placed me in the so-called friend-zone....unknowingly to her i talk to other females (im no player guys, im not) but something about her brehs has me were i think about her and her well-being.

    she been making excuse not to talk on the phone and avoiding answering dms...

    the last dm i sent her was like

    "i know you probrably feel a certain way about me and understand i care about you and i like you and i feel like certain things were miss intrepret by me and you, i miss that camaredrie we once had" (i know that may have been AFC but that how i felt)

    i still care about her i do (even though im dating)

    dudes what should i do?

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    so much stuff going on with this situation man i swear. we are on an online forum, she told me she had breast cancer (this is true but im starting to question it now as a way to prey on people emotions). We had some sexual exchanges thru pms and talk/text over the phone In the past. So like the above post states we in a convo thru text and all of a sudden she stops answering for hours.

    Two Months ago, i lost a friend and i need someone to talk to, i texted her and we talk for a bit but its.....i'll speak with you later.....that later turn into a week.

    i mean i feel lead on, even worse is she has sort of a topsy turvy personality. for example: she ask for a picture so i sent her one


    i get the "youre so cute" response... the moment we get into a slight argument its i like your personality, it not you looks. there's another guy on this site that by definition is a man-whore and she cheeses in thread.

    I discover recently she put me on ignore, i just dont know what to do guys. i mean how the hell should a person feel when a girl goes from hot to cold to i dont want to be bother over me sending a couple of texts.

    actually after that happen i distant myself for about 2 months and send her a text she said we were friends, but we never speak..outside of online and it damn near always me asking about her well-being, never the other way.

    1. i dont get how people could simply not care about another person outside themselves

    2.) i dont even get why she would give me her number if she was interested.


    DAMN

    thoughts

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    First trust me when I say that girls give their numbers to a lot of guys( some they aren't even interested in). Secondly you were conveying too much interest.. By reading this it seemed as if your world revolved around her... It's her loss she didn't get to know you... Big deal, move on. Everybody's going to get rejected, no matter how good you look. Take this as a lesson, don't talk to her unless she texts you. It's obvious she's no interested man. Move on and talk to other girls.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    I agree. Get back talking to a few more girls as quickly as your can in my opinion. The quicker you establish a connection with someone else and start to enjoy it, I think you'll realize that you didn't need to waste this stress worrying about her all this time because it simply wasn't worth it.

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    Peace guys that the thing ive been talking to other girls (even on the site i mention) and elsewhere just dont understand her giving the situation ***shrugs***

    question how should i respond if she does decide to come around?

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    should i place her in friendzone if this does happen?

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    any help with this? i've somewhat move on but what if she double back and try to make amends?

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    This was a lesson learned. Move on to other girls and never look back.

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    still cant get over this gurl, guys what do you do when you have to see this person damn near everyday?

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    Default Re: Any Chances recovering from this?

    Go out and pretend to have some fun. Hopefully, by doing so you might accidentally start having fun and become yourself again. You cannot let someone else define you unless you are just an average frustrated chump. If that is what you are or want to return to wallow in self pity, or you can go out be yourself have fun.

    When it comes to life "you gotta be hungry" Quoted by Les Brown motivational speaker

    It may not happen overnight but if you are true to yourself about who you are you can pick yourself up have fun and move on.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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