the Girl : blond, HB 7.5, a little on the tomboy side, funny, laughs at my jokes.
I'm seeing this girl for lunch regularly now, she's technically a friend, and, tough shit, she hangs out with a lot of guys; it's her tomboy side. I was involved once with a hardcore tomboy girl, who ONLY hung out with guys, and had no real girl friends to speak of (although she still wanted to be feminine and stuff, not a lesbian).
This girl, we'll call her Amy, has a boyfriend to which she seems very attached, too attached (texting him 24/7 etc). But it looks like she's getting bored, and I'm sure she would enjoy a little action on the side.
She laughs at most of my jokes, says I'm special, and our conversations have started to become more about sex, laughing about it and stuff.
this is good, I think, because :
- it conveys that for me, sex is not a big deal (for her I come across as very open sexually), therefore showing that I'm not judgmental = more attraction
- it probably gets her mentally aroused in my presence
Today I ate with her, and spoke with her, and then we sat on the grass in a park, but eventually the conversation just winded down, and I kinda ran out of stuff to say. Both our buzzes started fizzling out. The good thing was that she had class right after, so no awkwardness had time to settle in. She said "when will we see each other again?" before we parted, I answered "never. farewell.", in a joky way which made her smile.
Of course we keep in touch through text and snapchat, so we will see each other again.
I did a little kino on her, and she also touched me, grabbing my arm and getting her head close to mine to listen to some shit on her phone.
Also, for some reason, she asked me out of the blue "hey, is it cheating if you kiss someone else than your partner during a party?" (not the exact formulation) to which I answered "no". She then said "ok, well if it happens to me, it'll be your fault!" (does this mean anything?)
This is like the perfect set for me to try out and experiment new techniques ! A girl, alone with me, open about sex and who likes me basically for who I am and laughs at my jokes.
So, here are my questions - what should I do to verbally escalate sexually, in a verbal and physical way? (just read an article about role playing?)
If I manage to get her to my place, which is very probable, how can I get her horny and k-close at least?
She is basically the perfect "routine dummy" (sounds very macho, i know)
Once again, I'm a good friend, and we talk about sex openly, so there are many things I can try, which I could laugh off if they fail.
Thank you in advance for your answers and your help !