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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    Also in about the 10 times I asked she has never been available to hang out?
    In this dyn she may be thinking all you want is that.connect with her more...

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    No I invited her to a couple concerts , and shows

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    Sometimes they might think after that then you would..amplify attraction via phone or text once she seems engaged then shoot for the meetup.

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    Hey Bro, I only read your original post. I would NOT recommend contacting her to hang out while she has her period.

    If she brings it up, that is another situation. You don't want to come across as clingy.

    Let the girl start the "Where is this going" conversation.

    Having regular sex with someone and feeling developing from at least one of the people involved is gonna happen. It is great that you like this girl, but until she says, "Let's be exclusive", It wouldn't be breaking any laws if you dated other woman.

    That way if you mention you went for coffee with a female friend, you can see her reaction.

    For now I would keep it as FWB, as much as you wanna have her as your gf, if you bring up the topic, it may change things.

    Your in the easy seat, having regular good sex with someone you like to be around. Dude, your rolling.

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    Well again I asked her to hang out Friday. She said I'll let you know. Told her i know she has her period implying that we would just chill. I have a feeling she will get back to me last min saying sorry can't but then the next week call me to bang at her convenience.

    Part of me wants to not do that cause then I start to feel used like a human vibrator.

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    Fridays should be put off for meetups, unless you know you really have something like social gathering.even then..

    when she says she will get back to you reschedule or cancel plans.your next shot is when you see her.

    Think text game!

    PEACE

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    I agree. Well we have met many Friday nights. She works weekends.

    I guess it's just very convenient she won't get back but then when it suddenly works for me to come over and bang she wants me to go. Makes me like some human vibrator and the more I do it the more she controls the shots. But I'm not sure calling her out is a good idea.

    Also I'm developing feelings so I could shut up and do nothing and get laid but eventually get hurt

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    Also I'm developing feelings so I could shut up and do nothing and get laid but eventually get hurt
    Theres no need to call her out just let her knoe that you would not be available.then shoot for the meetup later.

    if she doesn't get back and she wants to do that have her come over to your place.sometimes when she asks for it don't go with it.
    politely let her know you feel like a tool and you won't take that.

    "hey can't make it, another time k"

    "you could come over "
    (make an excuse) as a reason why you can't come.

    flip the dyn in your favour

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    I read all he posts and your responses. I get the vibe, excuse the pun, that she is using you as a human vibrator. It's kind of a double edge sword, your getting regular good sex with someone you genially enjoy being around, but your also developing feelings, and it seems she is not in the same head space as you.

    I truly believe that if she was 8-9-10 into you, she would be more than willing to see you not just to have sex. She obviously likes you and trusts you, but her emotional attraction looks like it is around 5-7 level.

    Is it possible to invite her over to your place? Or get a hotel one night and do a night on the town? Don't say any romantic "Our hearts beat together" sh1t. Just go out and have a fun time. Then take her to your house. New environment, your turf, your domain. I think that would change things up.

    Don't ask her out, she is just gonna reject the idea. But when you make plans for a booty session, that is when you know she is free, so throw it out at her. If she can't make it, you have to be strong and not go over there with your d1ck between your legs. Rub one out if you have too.

    Maybe it is time that YOU are busy when she calls for a booty call. Don't be there 100% when she needs a good d1cking. Let her miss you.

    Don't start any text game, and don't start calling more than once a week.

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    Default Re: FWB advice, might be developing feelings

    In the relation a man must lead always make sure the things are almost all on your terms.why?sometimes a woman terms aren't yours.
    you need to take over the leadership frame.

    If you pulled this off you could have like a few others girls going if theres something you are not happy about don't settle.

    I think the reason you feel like a tool is because something is just not right

    By taking charge not being controlling it would shift the dynamic in your favour then you can present your feelings.

    right now even though she likes you its sort of like this:

    Shes ready
    Calls you
    you jump on quickly as if you almost have nothing going on for you.

    Yep thats what being booty called in this dyn means.

    Whereas you could handle it differently.. u may Take Charge!


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