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Thread: Country girl, super religious. Friend zoned?

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    Talking Country girl, super religious. Friend zoned?

    I'm gonna try to keep this super short to help everyone.
    I met this super cute country girl through a bunch of mutual girlfriends at my college.
    Hb9 easy.
    Friends gave her my number because she's had a huge crush on me for a really long time now. She's told them that she thinks I'm super sexy, blah blah blah:
    She texts me & I instantly start running push-pull & qualifiers. She's eating it up & loves it.
    She jumps through every hoop I give her & qualifies the sh1t outta herself.
    Awesome.
    In class the next day I walk in late & she is giving me huge IOIS.
    Big smiles with Eye contact
    Preening while looking at me.
    Staring at me repeatedly & then smiling when I catch her.
    I stopped caring I had too much work to finish.
    After class I stopped her & teased her about oweing me a hug. Then invited her to grab a bite to eat.
    We go outside & sit at a parkbench on the gorgeous side of campus. Things are going great.
    This is where it gets weird.
    We start chatting & I keep running DHV stories on her & just connecting with her really well & kino escalating & she won't let me hold her hand. No matter how many times I run the Kino ladder.
    What the heck.
    I also found out she's country, super into Jesus Christ (she goes to church 2 a week), & has only dated 2 guys. The last one she broke up with because he cheated on her after forcing himself on her a month ago.
    WOAH. Eventually class was about to start back up so we hugged & went our separate way.
    I get a huge text after the next class saying how she had so much fun talking to me but she just wants to stay friends even though she thinks I'm adorable because she's scared of getting into a relationship or working towards one after what happened. She kept saying things about how she's just not ready for a relationship & doesn't know when she will be but really likes me & wants to at least be friends.
    So after that text I told her that I understood but friends don't put each other in boxes or say what can or cannot happen & she agreed with me but still.
    Am I getting friend zoned? Or does she just want to build more comfort before anything?
    I feel like she genuinely wants to take things slow because of her ex boyfriend doing that to her, but I feel like if I do, It'll lead to a friend zone. I feel like I've done nothing wrong shes just scared of getting hurt again like she stated over & over in her texts.
    Should I freeze her out? Currently right now she's being froze out because I didn't know what to do.
    Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated on what to do.
    & no i don't have one-itus, I'm currently gaming other girls as I type this. I just felt like I really connected with her & would love to date her.

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    Default Re: Country girl, super religious. Friend zoned?

    The girl says she was forced to do things. I don't think "friend zone" is relevant - she needs to protect herself and you need to respect that. If you like her and want to date her then go for it - but drop the game and don't be pushy; you will need to earn her trust.

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    Default Re: Country girl, super religious. Friend zoned?

    More likely than not (assuming everything you said here is accurate), she's just looking for some reassurances. She want's to know that you're going to treat her well. A girl who has gone through something like that is often looking for a protector as much as she's looking for a lover.

    If I were you I'd just be very clear about what I was looking for. Make it clear that you are a "no bullsh1t" kind of person, and that you want a relationship with her.

    My caveat would be that if you don't want a LTR with her, you should probably just move on. I don't think you want to risk hurting her for sex.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Country girl, super religious. Friend zoned?

    Alright thanks everyone, I really appreciate the advice!


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