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    Default Gf wants to room with a guy!

    So my girlfriend (shes 28, im 22) of a few months now told me she might be moving in with a guy 'friend'. I dont know much about this guy, but to me this just sounds like trouble. I dont for a second believe that this guy would just so happen to be a white knight. Also, I dont know if i trust her, even though she's incredibly honest about everything (she admitted that she had cheated before-- according to her it was a bad relationship in which he didnt want to change, so she broke it off the next day, and started seeing the guy she cheated with-- her last ex of 3 years). I like this girl, we get along great but i couldn't cope with always having to worry and having her in the back of my mind! So Ive got a bit of a conundrum on my hands here, i need advice. What do i do?

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    Default Re: Gf wants to room with a guy!

    I wouldnt be comfortable with that either, So id let her know how I feel about the situation...

    It all comes down to this ; Is the extra stress worth the girl?
    is staying with her worth the possible outcome of anxiety? sleepless nights? or a receding hariline?
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: Gf wants to room with a guy!

    Well obviously you can't order her to not do it. But you are totally entitled to express your discomfort. And honestly if she cares that much she would at least consider an alternative before deciding that. As long as you are simply expressing herself and not telling her what to do she should be more understanding and receptive to another option.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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