Re: How long do you think attraction lasts ?
Attraction doesn't have a timeline. If you're attractive from the start, then don't change your formula for ANYONE.
As for your psychological sabotage problem, remember, you're the prize. There's no need for you to turn needy because you don't need her. Get that in your head! It takes time, and might harden you a little, but it helps your game.
I wish I was little bit taller
I wish I was a baller
I wish I had a girl who looked good
I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC