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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    Find something concrete to shoot it down with, use another comedian's YouTube clip that spins a similar idea in the opposite direction but that opposite direction must support your cause and link that back in response.
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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    That I like. I already made the "One of my heroes" comment, but I can follow-up in my own time with "And here's another..."

    Trouble is I've got so many comedy heroes. Here's one contender...

    Patrice O'neal- 20 yr old cooch and 40 yr old cooch - YouTube

    Not sure it supports my cause entirely. It does in that it states pretty clearly that this is about wanting pussy. But the downside is that he talks about the high value of 20-year old pussy (this girl is actually 19) and his willingness to wait.

    Certainly takes the subject in a new direction though!

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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    It is a gamble, not going to lie. High risk but tink about the best outcome versus the worst and make your decision.

    If you havn't noticed I like sheer to borderline the extreme, so I think it is definitely that.

    However, it is going all in hoping to call her bluff hopefully if you use it she doesn't have a full house
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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    Maybe I like this better...

    Chris Rock - Bigger & Blacker - Impossible To Turn Down Sex - YouTube

    Again, it's quite a contrast.

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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    I think we have a winner!

    Doug Stanhope on Pussy - YouTube

    It's ballsy and kinda crude, but it is right on the fucking money.

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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    Thanks for the suggestions, but those guys feel too sorry for themselves for my liking. It's a stand-up cliche I actually try to subvert in my own act.

    Nope, I'm going with Stanhope. If she runs away screaming, so be it. If she doesn't, it could spark an interesting conversation...

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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    Alright you are going all in best of luck. I applaud you for at least making a decision keep your chin up
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    Default Re: Should I cancel on her before she cancels on me?

    UPDATE:

    So, she didn't react to the Stanhope video at all. Her next message was something about hating studying maths, which I ignored.

    But then...

    I got a fairly last-minute slot on a stand-up show tonight and last night I sent out some invites via email and text. I almost didn't send one to this particular girl because I was all like... walk away. But then I thought, fuck it, she's expressed a lot of interest in stand-up in the past and there are surely few things more DHV than killing it on stage.

    As usual, a lot of people said they'd come - including the 'coquette' from my 'other' thread on here, and another girl I have a tiny bit of history with. Then, early this evening, the girl from this thread says she wants to come, and wants to hang out beforehand too. I thought I might have to do a juggling act. But...

    As usual, very few people did actually turn up. The girl from this thread did though. We grabbed some food then went to the show.

    Now, the thing about stand-up is that the performance itself is DHV as fuck. But beforehand you're way too on edge and focused on the show to game. At least any awkwardness can be attributed to that though ( was made more nervous by her presence though, to be honest). In fact, when she noticed I was showing signs of nerves, she said she used to feel much the same when she competed in taekwondo competitions.

    Anyway, one other friend turned up. A colleague who also happens to be a beautiful women, which helps, I guess.

    As for the gig, I fucking killed it. I was also nervous because I haven't gigged for six months and because I was doing all-new material, but I went down a storm. It was a competition and I won (a place in the final next week, at least).

    Like I say, too focused on the gig to be thinking about game (and I tend not to think about it that much anyway), but I was trying to look out for IOIs etc.

    Still nothing as abundant or strong as when we first met, but there were a few things I noticed:

    - She offered to pay for the food (but in the end didn't, because the student offer she's expected was no longer on offer).
    - She did pay for the beer at the show though.
    - I think she was mirroring my body language a bit, but I didn't exactly test that (and my body language still needs work, ESPECIALLY kino).
    - After my set when I went back to sit with her, I noticed her glancing my way a lot more. I think.

    And the fact that she came at all, and that she came alone, is encouraging.

    Also, before my set, the compere was talking to her and...

    At this point it's probably overdue that I explain that I live abroad, that I'm the only English speaker on the bill, and that I don't speak the local language very well at all.

    ...I'm pretty sure he was teasing her, asking what the deal was between me and her (I know him quite well). She said no to a few questions in a row then I think quite quietly said, in English, "friends".

    But then I guess she would, wouldn't she?

    She had to leave right after the show (that was definitely genuine), so we didn't really hang out afterwards.

    So to be honest I'm now... confused. I get that so much of game is keeping a clear head about things, but my head is NOT clear right now. This one's not quite a oneitis - I DO have other options - but I'll admit she's a favourite for sure. And for that reason I find it hard to tell if I'm genuinely identifying positive signs, or whether I'm clinging onto hope.

    I'm sure that's a feeling we all know, right?

    So, in summary...

    Help!


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