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Thread: Should i take it as an invite???

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    Default Should i take it as an invite???

    I met this girl the other day very very beautiful...it didnt take long for me to make small talk with her n we happen to know the same people...so i asked one of my friends on a lil bit of info on the girl....but after a little bit of small talk she got my name n i got hers.... And then after that i got her number while we where on break....while in we were in class i sent her a text wit the normal question u hav kids you no things like that..

    I kept the convo short didnt want to text her all threw the training class we was in together....after class i texted her again more small talk i also threw in a compliment i called her gorgeously beautiful she liked it i guess but didn't compliment back which was ok then i asked her the big question which was are u single she replied no.....im not going to lie i was a little bit devastated lol i responded wit a "oo ok im sorry" as in i wasnt trying to disrespect...later on that night she invited me out for drinks wit her friends but i wasnt feeling great so i stood in my hotel room n decided to just do some working out at the hotel....we kept talkin after that but i kept the convo short and casual....

    Next day saw her again in class she asked how i was feeling n i told her i wasnt feeling to good but i will b ok....on the second class break she tells me that she sent me a text n i told her that i haven't gotten it (didnt hav reception in the room we wer in)....and then she tells me that i havnt spoken to her much since she told me that she wasnt single and i told her "im just respecting the fact that your not single and im just tryin to keep it casual"....then i went on to ask her how long she has been with the guy ( i was curious to know) n she said " its something fresh and honestly i dont think its going to last n i say im not single cause its not fair to him cause im sure he says the same" and said ok...in my head i took that as a invite as to she is interested in me...n i asked her so it wouldnt be an issue if i asked you out to dinner lunch or breakfast one of these days n she said yea defiantly if i hav time yea n i was like ok cool we kept talkin a little more threw out the day n yesterday i texted her n we spoke a little didnt text her today though dont know if i should dont want to seem to clingy knowin she has a situation n i just want to see if she will text me

    IM SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY but i just wanted to put all the details in.....
    SO TELL ME SHOULD I TAKE IT AS AN INVITE N SEE WHAT HAPPENS OR KEEP IT CASUAL N KEEP IT MOVING..... pls tell me something

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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    My opinion: she likes you and you shouldn't be bringing up her bf unless she does. If she cared about him she definently wouldn't want to go out with you and all that other stuff. So I say go for it and see what happens.
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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    My opinion: she likes you and you shouldn't be bringing up her bf unless she does. If she cared about him she definently wouldn't want to go out with you and all that other stuff. So I say go for it and see what happens.
    Yea thats true...what threw me a little red flag was that she was engaged n broke up wit the guy she was engaged wit back in may n now she is dating this other guy but idk im just takin it as it goes ima gonna give her a call a little later n no i wont mention the ex i just want to get to know her n see was up

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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Quote Originally Posted by prettyboy89 View Post
    while in we were in class i sent her a text wit the normal question u hav kids you no things like that..
    This part had me cracking up haha. I wouldn't exactly call that a normal question, but hey, I'm also an abnormal person!

    She's into you, plain and simple. Personally, I've never seen anything wrong with hanging out with an "off the market girl". Especially in this case where the girl is explaining why she calls him her boyfriend. I would say that the ball is in your court and you should decide what roll you want to play in her life before you go any further.
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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Quote Originally Posted by Bimmer View Post
    This part had me cracking up haha. I wouldn't exactly call that a normal question, but hey, I'm also an abnormal person!

    She's into you, plain and simple. Personally, I've never seen anything wrong with hanging out with an "off the market girl". Especially in this case where the girl is explaining why she calls him her boyfriend. I would say that the ball is in your court and you should decide what roll you want to play in her life before you go any further.

    I would like to see where it goes i mean if a relationship happens that would b great n lastnight i texted her to see how work was going she texted back but i knew she was busy so i asked her if i could call her a little later n she said sure n when i called her it rang once n then to voicemail i guessed her fone had died n i waited about an hr and a half to send a text saying hey are u busy she responded a little later saying sorry hun n i said its ok n if its ok to call u she replied wit lets talk tomorrow cause i dont feel good im goin to bed n i said oo ok feel better n hit me up when ever u want.....so today im not goin to text or call ill just wait it out i really dont want to be that guy that calls n text first all the time or should i send a how are u feeling today text......hmm wat u think

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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Good call not talking to her today. Read these excerpts from what you last wrote... "lastnight i texted her", "i asked her if i could call her", "rang once n then to voicemail", "i waited about an hr and a half to send a text", "asked if its ok to call u".... watch how much direct interest you show. Honestly, you came off pretty needy to me, hopefully she didn't take it the same way.
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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Quote Originally Posted by Bimmer View Post
    Good call not talking to her today. Read these excerpts from what you last wrote... "lastnight i texted her", "i asked her if i could call her", "rang once n then to voicemail", "i waited about an hr and a half to send a text", "asked if its ok to call u".... watch how much direct interest you show. Honestly, you came off pretty needy to me, hopefully she didn't take it the same way.
    Yea i just noticed n thats wat i was trying to avoied but im not going to call or text i was really trying to avoied the needy n if she dosent call ill just let it b

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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    i'm not going to lie, you sounded appolagetic in your post, rid your vocabulary of the word "need" and the word "sorry" replace "need " with the word "want" and replace "sorry" with the phrase "I didn't intend for you to feel that way"

    this may seem nit-picky, but it will make you seem more alpha and it will help you to sound clearer to others.

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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    i'm not going to lie, you sounded appolagetic in your post, rid your vocabulary of the word "need" and the word "sorry" replace "need " with the word "want" and replace "sorry" with the phrase "I didn't intend for you to feel that way"

    this may seem nit-picky, but it will make you seem more alpha and it will help you to sound clearer to others.
    Yea i no what you mean n i do need to work on that but what do need to realize is that she is not the only girl i talk to...yea she is beautiful n im very attracted to her n i guess she is attracted to me n would like to get to know me since she wouldnt mind goin out to dinner or chillin one on one you no....but i caught myself last night n now that you guys say it i was starting to get needy n thats what i was tryin to avoid so for now im just goin to keep it casual if she dose text me or call me i will talk to her for sure but im not goin to put myself put there that quick ill give her the attention but not that much attention like how it was when we first met ....

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    Default Re: Should i take it as an invite???

    Didnt hit me up n i didnt hit her up today lol i guess ill just move down my list...it was a good lost though if it relly is lol


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