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    Default Should I ask out the third time

    I'm interested in this girl that I sit next to in my class at Uni. To cut a long story short, I asked her to 'hang out' with me a couple of times and I'll describe below what happened.

    1- We met sunday evening in library to go over some notes. I had never asked a girl to hang out with me before so this time I thought "screw it, let's just get rejected". So I come back to my place and call her up after about an hour and ask her if she wants to hang out and play pool with me.

    She said "I would say yes if I wasn't really busy with my homework. Usually I'm free on fridays and saturdays to hang out"

    2- A couple of weeks later, on a friday, we were working together on homework and when we got done, I asked her if she wants to hang out tonight.

    she said " I would say yes, but I'm going to Indianapolis tonight to hang out and stuff".

    My uni. is in Illinois, so it's not unbelievable that someone would go to Indianapolis.

    So, my question is - I've been thinking of going direct and using Deangelo's "are you single" on her. But I want your advice. I'm not afraid of getting a no and moving on, but I feel like I would lose a lot of value in her eyes because it might make me seem desperate.

    I'm not experienced with girls but I feel like I've made progress in attempting to ask someone to hang out with me. I'd appreciate any good advice.

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    Default Re: Should I ask out the third time

    I personally don't like to go direct if I started my game indirect. It can come off very unexpected. So asking if she's single probably wouldn't be the best rout... come to think of it, I've never asked a girl if she's single. I try to be a lot more under the radar and ask something like, so does your boyfriend go to *schools name* too? You're going to get the same answer (ie. does she have a boyfriend or not?).

    Instead of asking her to do something with you, try telling her. Make plans... then tell her to come with. For example, *dope pizza place, at 6:42*. Random times are my best friends, they're silly, but they make you a memorable person.
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    Default Re: Should I ask out the third time

    Thanks man. appreciate the reply. I neglected to mention some info. in the original post because I wanted to keep it short.

    When I asked her out the second time, she told me that she's usually really busy and that I should ask in advance because she usually has plans for weekend.

    I like your advice. The thing is, she's in the swimming team of the Uni. and she goes to sleep at 9:30 every night. So I can't make any night plans with her UNLESS it's Friday or Saturday.

    I guess it's a messed up situation, but if you or anyone else has advice on the matter, I'd really appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Should I ask out the third time

    In that case, I would weight out the pros and cons. She's a busy girl and only has a few nights out of the week to hang... until 9:30 when she goes to bed (sounds terrible). Another thing to remember is that a lot of your plans together are in her frame since you'd be hanging out when she can.
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    Default Re: Should I ask out the third time

    I get what you're trying to say. Thanks for the help.


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