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Thread: okay im almost dying. help me out.

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    Default okay im almost dying. help me out.

    this is gonna be hell of a thread but i need any help i can get. so basicly ive been standing for 3 options since the start of the summer and i cannot decide what to do or which way to go. its been killing me inside for several months and i need to get it out. i havent been suicidal in that way but ive been saying to myself from moment to moment that i dont really care if i died just right now if i get run over it wouldnt actually mind me at all. i am a negative person over all and i have no fucking idea how to change this. ive got perfect parents perfect childhood never had any issues ive got nice and populare friends to hangout with. i have this point of view in life that i go wake up at the time i dont want to, to go the the school i dont want to, to study what i dont want to, to get the job i dont want, to provide for the life i dont want. the worst part is that it is actually making sense to me. ive actually never had a real GF and neither a girl that really likes me. why it wouldnt mind me if i die is because i want to feel more wanted by people such as girls and my friends. i dont want you to feel sorry for me at all cause i know its my way of thinking and my actions that leads to my thoughts and my life. so if u have anything that can makes me more positive person or help me to get " happier " please enlighten me!

    ok, so to the " options "

    in the start of the summer i expanded my social circle with some girls let call them sara lisa and anna and they where pretty tight with each other. them all look really good but i started to fancy lisa pretty fast. we didnt have time to make any plans to get together for the whole summer but we texted each other EVERYDAY with hearts etc. so the half of the summer past and i started to like anna more and more so i started to text with her aswell. i told her i wanted to see her and we were going to see if we could meet up in the weekend but i didnt happen. so im texting with both lisa and anna at the same time already knowing they were really tight. so one day lisa texted me and said, so when are u going to meet anna? and ofc i was like " oh fuck, what have i done" but i just blindly kept texting about random shit. in the late summer my friend hosted a party, lisa texted me asking if i was going there and she really wanted to meet her. what i didnt know was that one of my friends had spoken to her for the past weeks that they were gonna meet up. so he said to me " dude are u into lisa cause her and i were talking to meet up." i kinda died inside. even if i didnt really build up a relationship and emotions with her i knew when i first saw her that she was one fucking babe. and i told him " i have my eyes on her at the moment but you know i cant like anyone i havent seen alone" so i told lisa "listen i really wanna talk with you about you and me. we are only firends right?" and she responded with "oh... okay yes sure we are." cause i thought it would be easier to friendzone the girl before shef friendzoned me. so lisa and my friend ( lets call him george ) made out at that party and i was kind of crushed to see it " live ". i smoked 5 packs of cigarettes in 1 hour standing alone in the rain. ( oh so deep ). and felt fucking terrible i hit the rock fucking bottom. but lisa ditched george and said to him that she didnt really want any relationship to happen between them and they stayed friends. at the same time ive gone berserk inside but played cool at the surface just kept texting and meeting lisa at random parties as friends. here is where sara comes in the picture. sara is actually lisas cousin and a very babe. im not feeling any emotions for either sara or anna but i thought they were very good looking and fun girls. but most of all i kept in touch with lisa. time past and here we are now ive been texting alot less with lisa and nothing at all with sara or anna. i cant explain the texts between me and lisa but ive toned it down. no smileys or heart, and short but simple messages like that im not so intrested in her anymore and that i " moved on ". but i still see her as one of my onities. as they are all tight and shit they will show eachother textmessages and things they get from boys overall. and if i try with one of them and she dont wanna meet up then i cant really talk to her friend if you know what im saying.
    so whats up right now and whats killing me is this.

    1. Lisa. the onities, i'd do prob anything in the world to make her intrested in me! but i think its the highest risk of them all. as i dont know if she even consider trying being more then friends at all. and a lets just be friends with her would ruin all my chances with the other girls. i wouldnt say i want a relationship with her. but i want flirt with her and atleast a goddamn kissclose. but i have no clue what to do. im thinking of calling her anytime soon and telling her that i wanna meet her and not as friends. if she gives me the lets just be friends speech ( i will feel like a fuck up inside ) but i will tell her " listen, i have enough friends already, i want to take you out but if ur not seeing me that way then call me when u change your mind". then erase her number and just break the fucking contact with her. and if she says she wants to meet up then the problem is solved but it just feels like she aint intrested that way. but the thing is if she says no i cant just start talk with her sara or anna and wanna meet them aswell. that will just make me look retarded.

    2. anna. ive been talking slightly over the summer and she is really babe not really wanted by most guys tho and we had a little flirt but im not speaking so much with her anymore. super cute tho but i dont know if my chances are high here

    3. sara. lisas cousin. she is 2 years younger than me and thats actually a winning part from me. we text each other from time to time with small small flirts so my chances arent fucked but she seems busy and to shy to meet me just the 2 of us. but still a super babe.



    so please convince me and help me do the right things. i need this. i really do. thanks for everything on this forum u guys have already helped me alot! big love <3

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    Default Re: okay im almost dying. help me out.

    For a start, if your first paragraph (and the rest of your post as well, for that matter) accurately reflects how you feel, including things like "I'm a negative person overall" and "I don't really care if I die" - and you feel like this a lot of the time - then you should probably consider talking to your doctor about it. I don't know where you are or how your health system works, but in Australia you can talk to your doctor and they can then refer you to a psychologist for some free counselling sessions.

    Sounds like you're also self-medicating with nicotine. If you want to feel better you gotta cut that shit out (or at least seriously cut down). Try swapping cigarettes for healthier options - exercise is one of the best: sport, gym, martial arts... jog around the block... any time you feel like smoking, try doing something else instead.

    I'll let others comment on your girl / game issues...

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    Default Re: okay im almost dying. help me out.

    Too much drama. Like serious amounts of drama dude.

    You need to stop over-thinking and over-analyzing every wrong angle of the situation. Your problem lays way back in the pickup, you didn't set the right tone from the beginning with any of them especially the one you want.

    Get your shit together first, and then hop on the train of self improvement.

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    Default Re: okay im almost dying. help me out.

    Okay this was a long thread so be prepared for a long reply. You sound real young 18-22 I presume? I know this sounds weird but you are just too young to understand women man due to inexperience and lack of knowledge so be prepared for an off the wall response. By that I mean I am 30 and I was once told by a guy once I hit 30 everything would make sense. I thought the guy was crazy cuz I was 24 at the time and arrogantly thought I knew everything. Shortly after I turned 25 I got into a serious car wreck, went through a mid-life crisis while turning over a new spiritual leaf. I ended up homeless often times or without a job and found myself lost. At the slight times of peace I was out trying to get with women but I never understood them. They mostly chased me from 18-23 and after that 24-29 I chased them. In my prime 18-23 I somehow ended up at my boss's house rubbing up on her alone but never pulled the trigger cuz again I was a player and just never really liked girls enough to sleep with them. I even had GF's strip and flash me but never pulled the trigger cuz again I was just usually bored.

    I remember in my prime 18-23 I had a girl literally in love with me. Super hot and she still tried to hookup with me while I was homeless, car less, sleeping on some meth head's floor. I always saw the 9-10's as unattainable, gold diggers, wanting big muscles, and those inclinations still prove true. For instance Miss TJV goes on and on, on POF about how she wants a nice guy but then she has been reported to be seen on sugardaddy and then recently started ranting and raving about guys with big guns but she secretly wants a guy with a big wallet. She is the pure essence of a gold digger even though she claims to work 80 hours a week, no car, mostly rides the lightrail in the big city, and travels A LOT. Dallas, Cali, etc this girl has got money and lots of it. Has about 1,000 outfits. I first saw Miss TJV on POF and she never responded. Then I ran into Erika at the Bar and spent 30 minutes trying to game her as she was playing hard to get. Then out of the corner of my eye I noticed Miss TJV from POF talking to Erika. I wanted to open her but I was stuck in the AFC zone and knew I needed to DHV by hitting on this other HB10 but failed due to being stuck in Oneitis for Erika. Well come to find out I found Miss TJV on FB which is how I found Erika who I was looking for. Hit Miss TJV up on FB and she never responded. But had a stupid FB account and deleted it but Miss TJV never re-added me. She has 3,000 followers and most of them AFC guys. But I had the chance to hit on her had I not been such a douche! Now that I know her I would NEVER go near opening Miss TJV (well maybe on a good night) but it still would have been nice to know where it would have went.

    The Moral of the story is these girls I am talking about Erika and TJV are 28 and 29 and are BFF's from Dallas but moved to Denver. The girls you are talking about are likely 18-23 and they play nothing but head games. The real cream of the crop is well 25 on. This proves so true. The girls that were so hot when I was 18-21 I looked them all up on FB and they are either fat, gross, look like clowns (literally), etc. I am talking the HOTTEST girls from High School now being totally weird looking and I am not just talking a little weird I am talking WAY WEIRD! And they are all 28-29. So look at the facts girls now 18-21 are a true riskbreaker because they could go through a drastic change and turn to uggos. So much for marrying at 18-24 ay? They may get an uggo. My High School Sweetheart who rejected me 3 times, who I stalked in the white pages, etc fell in love with me and became my GF and would sneak in my friend's apartment and try to sleep with me by stripping off her clothes and I just looked at her funny. Now she is fat, gross, and ugly maybe a HB5. A HB5! And she was a freaking 10 in High School Man, just saying the body is weird and their faces may change for the better or worse from 18-25. One girl from my early years was still hot but she was pushing it.

    What am I saying? I got it made man. Like I said once you turn 30 it.is.on. Girls 18-23 are no longer attractive to me. I see the little black lines on their hands at the Clubs for 18-20 year olds and I just keep walking, too many stupid games man. But the real cream of the crop? Women in their 30-40's man they are freaking gorgeous. These little 18-22 year olds are tools and I don't mess with them. I say that because I like Aubrey the Buckle girl and want to bag her and she looks a little young probably 23. My last GF was 40 something and people on our date keep saying she looked like Helen Hunt. She was so freaking hot but she bored me so goodbye! Then there is the maturity issue I couldn't pull off a date with a 32 yr old (Blue) when I was 22. But at 30? Dating 40 yr olds, holla! So either way you probably have a long way to go so as Coach Corey Wayne says "Hookup, Hang Out, and Have Fun". You'll see what I mean come 30. But stop getting oneitis for these teeny boppers and young 21-22 yr olds. My standards will change the older I get but for now know you just need to get older to see what I am talking about. Probably going to be dating another late 30 something or 40 something year old next Summer since those are the ones I like the most so keep your eyes peeled for those upcoming reports. For now though I will try to bag Aubrey via the "Long Game" oh yeah. I could say more but for now that should help and follow my posts to get more help.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 10-14-2013 at 07:20 AM.
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