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Thread: I can approach, just afraid of running out of things to talk about!

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    Default I can approach, just afraid of running out of things to talk about!

    Any suggestions here? I can approach for the most part and open up, but after that, I am always afraid that I will run out of things to say, or even worse, go into "21 question mode." Any suggestions on this? This is probably the biggest thing holding me back. I run into times when the conversation goes completely dead and then I have no idea what to say and interest is lost/the situation gets awkward.

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    Default Re: I can approach, just afraid of running out of things to talk about!

    If you are losing her in convo, playfully say somethin like "wow, you are boring all of a sudden!!" and she should react like "omg, what??" and then immediately feel like she needs to fix the situation. That should get her to talk. Anytime you restart the conversation by asking yet another regular question, she is just going to answer it and stop talking again and you will turn into 21 questions. You could also find out what she is most passionate about and she will probably talk about that for a long time, especially if she feels like she is teaching you something you did not know. Everyone loves to feel useful. Last, you could change the scenery. Pull her over to another part of the bar and if she asks why, you could jokingly tell her, "You look better in this light" (could be risky depending on what she's like) or "It was really boring over there, I know you felt that" which is almost like calling yourself out on the fact that you knew the conversation was getting dull and she'll probably be relieved to hear that you recognized what was happening and she doesn't have to feel guilty anymore for thinking it. Hope this helps!!


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    Default Re: I can approach, just afraid of running out of things to talk about!

    Whenever you run out of things to say, the very next thing you should do is break rapport with her. This can come in many forms, but it should seem funny to her. If it is a tease, then she will feel obligated to explain herself and she will be qualifying to you. That is exactly how you want the conversation to proceed.
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    Default Re: I can approach, just afraid of running out of things to talk about!

    You must have what we call conversational mapping..this is when you ask a girl a question-she answers-you then relate in accordance to what she has said and entertain it a bit..remember this conversational mapping tactic should be used after you have built attraction
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