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Thread: The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

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    Default The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

    So you know the type. I'm sure you guys have come across one or two yourselves. She's cute, but quiet. There is a serenity to her face.

    There's this girl in my class that's like that and I'd like to attract her. I opened her after class one day and we talked a bit but I don't think I ran any game on her besides getting an opinion. The only thing I gained out of that is that now she knows my face, but she doesn't know *me*.

    Here's the thing - she sits next to this chick I know. I asked this chick to save me a seat next to her (not the girl I like) and I already told the common friend that I like this girl and she said "fine I'll save you a seat".

    So I sit next to my friend one day and initiate a little bit of conversation with the girl I like (who is sitting next to my friend), but I still couldn't come up with anything that would portray me as attractive.

    Afterwards I met my common friend and I basically lost a crap load of value in her eyes because I conceded that I'm an AFC who can't get chicks.

    The good - I'm pretty certain the common friend hasn't said anything to the girl I like, so there's still a chance that we can interact.

    So what do I do? I don't think I can sit next to her and then try and run game because that will make me seem desperate. I don't know what to say to her. I have no clue about how I can attract her. I would appreciate any kind of help.
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    Default Re: The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

    There's a good and bad side to attracting cute shy/quiet girls... The good news is that it is easy and all you have to do is build comfort and rapport, the other part is you don't really have to do too much( like following her wherever she go like a fiend.

    The bad news is once you introduce her to the world of dating, shy girls tend to become very open and in the experimental sage that they might turn out becoming HO3s
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    Default Re: The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

    so how do I approach her? As I said, I can't just go and sit next to her as it would be too obvious.

    I do want to say that she seems confident and isn't all that shy, but she is quiet. I can believe the comfort thing.

    How do you guys approach these kind of girls. I would appreciate any help.

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    Default Re: The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

    Since she is shy, I doubt that it would take much to get her to talk to you. Running game on her isn't even necessary and probably would be easily noticed by her. You could try just putting yourself out there and being honest with her. Nonchalantly end up around her and by being honest with her you will build comfort. Maybe even try small amounts of kino if you get her to laugh or something or she makes you laugh. If she is just simply quiet, then treat her like any other girl you would approach and if she is confident then you know you have to portray that as well. As soon as you get a sh1t test, you know you did what you were supposed to.
    You can get her out of her comfort zone, you're not an AFC, you're the alpha, remember? Good luck.


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    Default Re: The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

    There's this girl in my class that's like that and I'd like to attract her.

    I like the way this is worded. You already have your goal in mind. There is some knowledge in this, and your first step is complete.

    Afterwards I met my common friend and I basically lost a crap load of value in her eyes because I conceded that I'm an AFC who can't get chicks.

    Perception, unless she said that you have no reason to believe she thinks it. You start acting like she thinks that, then she'll start to believe it. Otherwise, relate to her. If she is your friend, she should be more then willing to help you out.

    so how do I approach her?

    You understand the comfort thing, good. This is what it is going to take. You can go two routes here, one easier than the other. You can be alpha, charismatic, and out going. Start in with some banter, include others if you wish, and don't hesitate to show your interest. When you show your worthwhile she'll she it quickly and instantaneously be attracted; especially if you start showing some interest.

    The second way. Build that comfort. Your never going to get anywhere waiting around for you opportunity. Don't obsess about what you look like in her eyes, remember your at school, there are a ton of other girls around. If you don't want to sit next to her in class, approach her afterwards, walk up next to her in the hall and simply say......"hey, how are you?" Take a Dale Carnegie approach, it's probably the easiest way for her to get comfortable with you. Ask her a few questions to prompt an interesting subject. Let her do most of the talking. Listen well, and increase the topic as largely as you can, get an entire picture. Then relate. Share a few of your small experiences within the topic and then push forth to the next thread. The quickest way you can get someone to feel comfortable with you is to let them tell you as much about themselves as possible.

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    Default Re: The *quiet* cute girl - how to attract her

    Thanks man. I appreciate the reply.


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