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Thread: Changing from AFC back to Alpha with a girl, need help

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    Default Changing from AFC back to Alpha with a girl, need help

    Okay this is kinda a awkward situation that I'm finding myself in that I never experienced before.

    This girl at my school had her friend tell me that she like me and after that day she gave me lots of IOI. The reason I think she was attracted was because I had high social value with many HB in school and talked to a lot of people. But I felt like her motive was to be my gf so I played along and started becoming AFC by chasing her (trying to qualify myself) and I even stopped talking to other HB basically becoming a introvert which I was before I started PUA. now the attraction vibe is beginning to fade and I think I'm friendzoned (not completely but it's heading that way).

    After a failed K-close I decided to give up the "trying to be her boyfriend" and go back to being Alpha.

    My question is, do you think it is possible to revert back to alpha and regain back attraction with her?


    I still want to K-close her at least.. Need advise please

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    Default Re: Changing from AFC back to Alpha with a girl, need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Dimebagcfh51 View Post
    But I felt like her motive was to be my gf so I played along and started becoming AFC by chasing her (trying to qualify myself) and I even stopped talking to other HB basically becoming a introvert which I was before I started PUA.
    I'm really glad you posted this, but I don't understand your logic or strategy. Once you played along with her game and started qualifying to her you lost your chance to be her boyfriend. You may have thought that this was the right move, but it sounds like it put you into the friend zone.

    To answer your question, you should immediately go back to being your definition of alpha as soon as possible. Not for her sake, but for yours. You should not be happy or comfortable qualifying yourself to the world as a beta male. You are very deep in recovery mode and probably have little chance of getting her back. The best thing you can do is to game other girls and increase you skills with women in general.
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    Default Re: Changing from AFC back to Alpha with a girl, need help

    Go back to pumping attraction and chill back..you have chased her and now you should cut the chase and lay back..she clearly liked the fact that other girls were chasing you and you have to revert to those days and re-build your social circle
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    Default Re: Changing from AFC back to Alpha with a girl, need help

    I don't understand your logic or strategy.
    Ditto.

    When you act a certain way that works for you and attracts women, why change it? There's no need to chase, ever. That's her job.

    I suggest getting in touch with some of these other HB's and hanging with them, even if you just want them to be your friend. It's not your fault if they fall for you along the way. That being said, don't be a dork and lead them on.

    As for this other girl, I don't think all is lost. She needs to see some alpha qualities in you. She also needs to realize that she can lose you because you don't need her. All that can be established through your actions more so than your words.
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