First time posting here, I hope I can find some answers to my situation
I'll try to make it short and sweet,
I met this girl, she's 20 and i'm 24, 5 months ago, she was a new girl where I work, (still work with her). She's seeing someone, she's not calling her her boyfriend but it's been over 2-3 years they see each other and their relation is going no where..
That guys is 31, he's the first guys she had feeling for and since we started to see each other outside of working days, she told me for the first time she feels something and it confuses her. We kissed, did some oral sex, and every time we see each other, it's always better and better..
Until, yesterday, she told me that she couldn't leave the routine she has with him, and she wants to be sure he isn't the right guys first. But I know that this guy doesn't really care about her (for a real relation) and I don't know if I should just back it up, and let her comeback if she's ready someday or trying to show her what I have to offer and hope she will realize..
Sorry if my english is not too well, I'm french.
Waiting for your thoughts ! thanks !