My best friend (who's a girl) has a younger sister who is gorgeous. She is 6 years younger than me and I've had my eye on her for a couple years. She is 20 now and this summer we all hung out at her dads place a couple weekends. I started allot of kino the first weekend and gave her the "sh1t eating grin" everytime I looked at her. I got the classic "what" statement and I knew I was in. The next time we spent the weekend at her dads I made the move. I went extremely direct and told her how beautiful she was and about other quality traits she possesses. I also told her that her sister would be angry and that I was going to have to tell her sister what was going on, and she agreed. The HB wouldn't kiss me but we were cuddling and I was kino'ing hard. She had a BF at the time and I respect that she wouldn't kiss me. She broke up with her boyfriend the next day.
A couple days later she started school. We both go to different schools about 6 hours away but her dad lives near me. I told her sister (my best friend) about what happened and that I was going to be seeing the HB 8. My friend was totally cool that I was seeing her sister. The HB 8 LOVED that I called her sister. She thought I would NEVER do that.
Two weeks later we hung out for a weekend. First night we basicly stared at eachother for hours. She was getting SO turned on. I made out with her and tried to escalate. She resisted allot but I knew I was in. I told her how I was going to lick every little piece of her p**** and that was it. I went down on her and she had to leave. Next night I F closed and she kept telling me how she had such a great time.
A week later I went over to her dads place and told him I was seeing his younger daughter (I'm family friends with these people). He was fine with it. I had talked to her about this and she agreed that I would need to do this. I thought this showed HUGE balls and she NEVER thought I would actually do this.
Two weeks later I talk to her on the phone and she makes statements like " I don't know what I want" "I'm too young for you" "I think it was just the excitement". I knew this was bad but we had a decent conversation and I talked dirty to her over the phone and she was very turned on and talking dirty back. The next day she texted me that she was "pulling the plug on us" and that she would call me later. We talked and she told me that she "didn't think she could stay committed" but that she was still very excited to see me in November when we will both be in the same city. She also heavily insinuated that she wanted to continue to hook up.
Im totally fine with this. I realize now that a LDR for a woman her age was a mistake. I want to continue to hook up with her however, and I know its a possibility that won't happen. When we talked I told her I was fine with being just friends with benefits and that I wasn't upset with her. She answers right away when I call or calls me back as soon as she can and replys to texts very fast but doesn't initiate very often. I'm going to tell her next time we hang out that she shouldn't fall in love with me because the door is closed on anything more than being friends. I was also going to explain to her how "we" would never work and how she's too "young" for me. This stuff has worked well before and could reframe as "Im" the one that isn't interested in that. She knows I have no trouble picking up girls because her sister tells her everything about me, including my sexual exploits.
Truth is: I really don't want a relationship now and I want to date multiple women at the same time including her. But I'm going to be seeing this girl for years to come and I want to continue to F her and later on I might want a relationship with her. I already know what I should have done at the get go (Tell her she's too young, tell her I didn't want a GF). What's your guys take on the situation?