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    flybry is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default She is starting to withdraw

    Hey guys,

    My first post here, and I hope its in the right category

    I have been seeing a girl for close to 2 months. I ran game on here, and since then we have been spending a lot of time together as well as sleeping together. She frequently texts me things like I enjoy our friendship, details of our sexual encounters, or funny memes/jokes and what not. She initiated a talk a few weeks back saying that she didn't want to lead me on and wasn't looking to date, however she kept coming back for more. Last night we met up late and went for a walk. Got back to her place to for a bit and right before I took off we hugged and I went in to give her a kiss. She didn't meet me halfway. So I smiled and walked out, put on my shoes and headed for the door. She tried to stop me and I gestured her to come to me, and then she did the same. I smiled, said goodnight and split.

    She texted me that she was sorry and enjoyed the walk and goodnight. I texted her that "Once you told if I wanted to kiss you to just do it, but I'll refrain from here on out, goodnight". "just do it as in go for in for the kill not say anything about it haha."(which I always initiate kisses, sex). I have not contacted her since and wasn't planning on it. Instincts tell me we have reached a stopping point and I should blow her off in the future. If she is not reciprocating this her interest is not completely there.

    I would like your guys advice and support on this. Ignore her? Call her out? Stay friends? Have sex without getting my feelings involved (difficult for me at now after time spent)?


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    Default Re: She is starting to withdraw

    Hi Flybry,

    Thanks for joining the forums and posting this to get some feedback. I really appreciate that you took this step for self improvement. My advice for what you should do next depends on what you really want. If you want her to be your girlfriend, then you should find a way to meetup with her again, build comfort and then sleep with her again. From there see where you want to take it.

    If you're not sure if you are really into her, then you should just move on and date other women. If you are looking to improve your game and the quality of women you spend your time with, then you should definitely start pursuing other women.

    Let me know if you have more specific questions.
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