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    Default Realist or Idealist?

    Hey guys! I'm going out with this girl she's definetely and investor and a denier and I'm pretty sure she's a realist as well but I have some doubts, I'll tell you why:

    She was with her previous boyfriend for 3 years but then they broke up because she wanted to leave her country and come to Scotland to study acting. SO you'd say ok she's definetely a realist, but then thing that gives me doubts about it it's because her parents pay her rent here and she just quit a job because it was too many hours and she just wants a part time job.

    So what do you guys think? I think she's a realist.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Realist or Idealist?

    Quote Originally Posted by giocatore1 View Post
    Hey guys! I'm going out with this girl she's definetely and investor and a denier and I'm pretty sure she's a realist as well but I have some doubts, I'll tell you why:

    She was with her previous boyfriend for 3 years but then they broke up because she wanted to leave her country and come to Scotland to study acting. SO you'd say ok she's definetely a realist, but then thing that gives me doubts about it it's because her parents pay her rent here and she just quit a job because it was too many hours and she just wants a part time job.

    So what do you guys think? I think she's a realist.

    Thanks!
    Ummmmmmmm, I don't want to be rude, but what are you talking about? Really. I'm not sure what your definition of a "realist" is and why that would have any bearing on whether you want to hookup with her or not.
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    Default Re: Realist or Idealist?

    It is pandora if I am not mistaken, I just cannot help you because I do not know the system. Too complicated for me, unless everything is programmed into your bran at a split seconds recollection it would tend to trip you up I am sure thus I never looked too far into it per personal preference.

    Psychoanalytical practices work wonders in game but when it takes too long to figure it out it is causing lost time. Additionally one person often displays more than one category dominantly or may posses two categories with equal intensity. So I'd say use what you got and make your move based on those details. Either way realist and idealist are rather similar that they both believe in something passionately just one thinks about how it should be and the other thinks about how things appear. Notice I didn't say how things are because if we could see how things are we would never be wrong and always be prepared for everything so that is why I say realist doesn't see reality they see how things appear to be.
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    Yah it is definitely pandora's box..If you want to see whether the girl is a realist or Idealist ask her about topic related to marriage and see how much she gets into them..the more she is interested in marriage and aspiring to become a housewive the more likely she is Idealist..If she is not interested in marriage and she is too much goal orientated or "MISS INDEPENDENT" then she is likely to be a realist
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vere View Post
    Yah it is definitely pandora's box..If you want to see whether the girl is a realist or Idealist ask her about topic related to marriage and see how much she gets into them..the more she is interested in marriage and aspiring to become a housewive the more likely she is Idealist..If she is not interested in marriage and she is too much goal orientated or "MISS INDEPENDENT" then she is likely to be a realist
    Solid advice directly about the question asked.

    It made me laugh though they always think that they are miss independent because they are realists but as in my conclusion above realty and perceived reality are often two separate things especially when it comes down to a woman's view of her independence.

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    Hahaha..They may be alpha females but they still need alpha males in their lives
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    Default Re: Realist or Idealist?

    either way its irrelevant. pandora is complicating a situation that has no need being complicated. Pandoras Box = Oneitis Game
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    Quote Originally Posted by 0Rooster0 View Post
    either way its irrelevant. pandora is complicating a situation that has no need being complicated. Pandoras Box = Oneitis Game
    If you're trying to get with one particular girl, then it isn't irrelevant at all.
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    Default Re: Realist or Idealist?

    Quote Originally Posted by ED11356 View Post
    If you're trying to get with one particular girl, then it isn't irrelevant at all.
    worrying about one girl would cause oneitis and you'd lose the girl anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 0Rooster0 View Post
    worrying about one girl would cause oneitis and you'd lose the girl anyway.
    That's only if you start becoming obsessed with that one girl.
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