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  1. #1
    BobbyEffect is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need Help with this Girl

    Hey all - ok so I've been texting this girl trying to get her out but she seems very hard to get a hold on and gives me mass shit tests.

    Like today I started up with:

    Me: Surprise!
    Her: ?
    Her:

    Me: My buddy and I are going to xxx blabla,.. you should totally roll with us. it will be a blast!

    Her: I'm sorry but who is this again?

    At this point I was like ( meh this is a shit test again).

    Me: someday we should go to rehab together.
    (idk why I said that really, since she already went to rehab for real lol.. yikes)

    Her: ?

    Now I'm confused, what should i do/have done? Her interest seems pretty low

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    Ouch man, that one stunggg lmao. Well clearly you shouldn't have said that, you would have been better off saying "the guy outside your window."

    Most people would drop it. Abundance abundance. If however your like i am and you have a hard time accepting defeat, you persist.. carefully.

    First things first, you should probably think of a reason why you invited her to go back to reap. Idk just say you thought you typed relax and you we going to invite her to go (input relaxing activity.) You don't have to say that our go that route but your going to have to think of something.

    Now the hard part. How to initiate contact and get her replying after that bombshell.
    If you use my suggestion you could just play it off like you haven't even noticed your mistake yet, or you could use it and say " omg I just realized what I sent you, I meant to say blah blah ( insert story.) Or just type "relax*"
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    BobbyEffect is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    I know right. Damn. But like its weird coz our last text convo we were really sexual. I feel like now she's honestly playing very hard to get.

    Meh, maybe I should drop it. But just in case, what would be a good recover for this? I'm feeling like I should text her in a few days to judge how bad the damage is... any advice?

    Thanks

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    Honestly the best recovery I can think of with the pressure of being in your situation to aid nr is the one I listed above. I typically don't lie to women at all but I can't see a way around that in that case because saying "im sorry, I don't know what came over me just isn't gonna cut it there.
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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    You should also think of some better text openers. "Stop smiling" is one of mine, that or a cheesy joke. "What do you call an alligator in a vest?an investigator ( after she replies)
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    Ok quick update. tell me what u think.

    I texted her:
    Me: omg. I just saw what I wrote. i meant to write relax. Damn autocorrect.

    Then she texts: thats ok lol. is this Brian from France? (yes I'm french lol)

    SO im super confused. could it be possible she hasn't got my number saved? damn

    Also, what would be a good reply for this

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    Could be possible, but unlikely. She probably trying to make it look that way though. Girls do that all the time so it looks like she hasn't been think of you. Carry on. You've got it from there. Just don't dig any More holes
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    BobbyEffect is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    Could be possible, but unlikely. She probably trying to make it look that way though. Girls do that all the time so it looks like she hasn't been think of you. Carry on. You've got it from there. Just don't dig any More holes
    Oh so thats a GOOD thing then. she texted me 15 min ago and its almost 1 am here. she isn't asleep yet. text her tomorrow or now?

    SHould i text: "right on" or call her out on it. I'm on the fence here...

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Help with this Girl

    I call them out because I feel it's more alpha, but the safer bet is to ignore it.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever


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