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Thread: How do YOU stay positive?

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    Default How do YOU stay positive?

    So I thought I was really turning a corner, but I don't think I truly am. I'm freaking 23 years old and have never been in a relationship. My inner game sucks and I am an extremely self conscious person. I try to get myself to "step outside of the box", but I just cannot psychologically do it. It just really depresses/discourages me when my friends are with all of their girlfriends hanging out on the couch/wherever having fun, and I'm that odd guy in the corner trying to hang out, but just feeling awkward. And the worst part is I know guys with great girlfriends that treat them like complete Sh*t or just run through them without one ounce of respect. This bothers/angers me because I know I wouldn't do that given the chance. I guess nice guys really do finish last?

    I guess I'm just looking for some motivation/motivation stories. Something to keep me going. Because hope is shrinking by the day. I'm not looking for people to feel bad for me. I really want some help/suggestions. This isn't fun. In fact, it sucks.

    I apologize if this sounded like a sob story, I just needed to vent. Like I said above, it's just past the point of being discouraging. It's downright humiliating. I HATE TO FAIL AT SOMETHING. It drives me insane.

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    Default Re: How do YOU stay positive?

    How do YOU stay positive?
    not getting hung up over the past that can't change, learn from it and be happy it happened (whatever it is)

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    Default Re: How do YOU stay positive?

    if your not satisfied with what youve done so far then dont associate yourself with the past-tense version of you.

    Now since you are aware of the fact that you arent where you want to be you pretty much have control of how to get where you want to be.

    If your desired destination is a relationship then you have a single goal you can fully focus on.

    So if it is indeed a relationship that you want, make sure you have the right idea of what a relationship is and how it should work. (in my opinion a relationship is where 2 people benefit eachother in life, without one person going out of their way to make the other person happy...think yin and yang)

    Hopefully this will help you see women in a different light, and instead of asking how do i make them happy, you ask will they make me happy?
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: How do YOU stay positive?

    Your post reminds me a lot of me before I got into pickup. I was angry at women, but confused because I thought that I loved them. I wanted to put them on a pedestal. I found out, the hard way, that that is Not what they want.

    A really Amazing book that helped me get a completely new perspective on women is a book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. Read it and it will change your life in a very positive way.
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    Default Re: How do YOU stay positive?

    Don't be hard on yourself bro..most of us here literally started from being an AFC at one point or another..learn from your last personality and embrace change ey
    Whether you think you can or you can't either way, you are right-To believe in the heroic makes heroes


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