Re: How do YOU stay positive?
if your not satisfied with what youve done so far then dont associate yourself with the past-tense version of you.
Now since you are aware of the fact that you arent where you want to be you pretty much have control of how to get where you want to be.
If your desired destination is a relationship then you have a single goal you can fully focus on.
So if it is indeed a relationship that you want, make sure you have the right idea of what a relationship is and how it should work. (in my opinion a relationship is where 2 people benefit eachother in life, without one person going out of their way to make the other person happy...think yin and yang)
Hopefully this will help you see women in a different light, and instead of asking how do i make them happy, you ask will they make me happy?
-"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"