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    Default Need Advice from the Experts

    Hello Gentlemen,

    I am having some issues with this girl I am involved with and was hoping to get some advice/ideas/thoughts from you guys.

    I met this girl at work. She is from Denmark, tall, blond, and an HB9.
    We started hanging out and despite an early text of she didn't want to lead me on she wants to be friends, we got deeply involved with each other, slept together and I spent many nights at her apartment.
    After six really great months, she went back home. Her leaving was really hard, and the good bye at the airport was one of the hardest things I've ever done. Now that she is home our only connection is via text and Face Time. My issue is that while our FT chats are always really good and always last longer then an hour, she sucks at texting, she is slow to respond and sometimes doesnít respond at all to some really good/funny texts. I understand she is busy with her studies but Iíve always said, it takes 30 seconds to send a text, nobody is that busy. Now I know long distance relationships are hard, but, she plans on coming back in the spring for two months and come to work in the States once she finishes her PhD. My issue is how do you keep a relationship going when one person is bad with texting when thatís all you have. There was a time when I thought to hell with it, Iím just going o keep doing my text thing regardless of her responding, but when there are four or five texts from me stacked up I think it starts to look needy, Iíve tried the freeze out and she always texts me after a few days but then goes back to her unresponsiveness. Iím really trying to figure out whatís the best way to proceed

    Thanks for the comments guys.... They are greatly appreciated

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    Default Re: Need Advice from the Experts

    That's a difficult one...I think you nailed it when you said that long distance is tough. You can only keep an attractive girl's interest for so long without seeing each other physically in my opinion.

    If she is coming back, I would definitely be very weary of coming off too needy/pushy. She might lose her attraction to you if you do this killing any chance of you fucking her again once here.

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    Default Re: Need Advice from the Experts

    thanks for the comment Fuser, the one thing I've learned from this forum is DON'T BE NEEDY ...... i figure worst case is I wll be her F Buddy every time she comes to America because if you've never had a Scandanavian girl you have to give one a try ...... PEACE

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    Default Re: Need Advice from the Experts

    Yeah fuser is right, it is hard, but not undoable. I might not be an expert pua but I am an expert at maintaining long distance relationships. I dated a girl that lived on the other side of the world every summer for three years and various others.

    The main thing is that you need to know what you want. Decide wether you wanna fark her or date her.

    If she's really that busy I would get bored of dating her and just try to get with her when she's here. If she decides she wants to make time for you, figure it out then.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Need Advice from the Experts

    thanks for the advice Dalton, it's much appreciated

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    Default Re: Need Advice from the Experts

    Always remember it takes 2 to have a relationship despite what you may want. If you're putting fourth all the effort and she's barely putting in any, I would say it's not worth pursuing a relationship. Talk things out, but ultimately you need to look at the situation, and decide the best course of action, even if it may not be what you want.


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