I am having some issues with this girl I am involved with and was hoping to get some advice/ideas/thoughts from you guys.
I met this girl at work. She is from Denmark, tall, blond, and an HB9.
We started hanging out and despite an early text of she didn't want to lead me on she wants to be friends, we got deeply involved with each other, slept together and I spent many nights at her apartment.
After six really great months, she went back home. Her leaving was really hard, and the good bye at the airport was one of the hardest things I've ever done. Now that she is home our only connection is via text and Face Time. My issue is that while our FT chats are always really good and always last longer then an hour, she sucks at texting, she is slow to respond and sometimes doesnít respond at all to some really good/funny texts. I understand she is busy with her studies but Iíve always said, it takes 30 seconds to send a text, nobody is that busy. Now I know long distance relationships are hard, but, she plans on coming back in the spring for two months and come to work in the States once she finishes her PhD. My issue is how do you keep a relationship going when one person is bad with texting when thatís all you have. There was a time when I thought to hell with it, Iím just going o keep doing my text thing regardless of her responding, but when there are four or five texts from me stacked up I think it starts to look needy, Iíve tried the freeze out and she always texts me after a few days but then goes back to her unresponsiveness. Iím really trying to figure out whatís the best way to proceed
Thanks for the comments guys.... They are greatly appreciated