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    blindbat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Advice: Post 1st Date

    I went on a first date with a 8/10 Tinder chick.

    She tells me she's up for drinks and that she's free Wednesday or sometime next week(this was last week). We agreed to meet up last wednesday around 8:30. She seemed happy to meet me, even told me she was impressed when I told her what I do for a living. One thing that sucked tho, the bar was full so we had to sit at a table facing each other which I hate to do on first dates. So I'm basically stuck facing her for a couple hours trying not to come off as a chode. I thought the date went well but it could've gone better. We had a few things in common, I tried to tease her etc, but there were times when I wanted to touch her but couldn't.

    We had a few drinks, date lasted for a couple hours as well had appetizers as well. when we walked out I asked if she'd like a ride home, she tells me its up to me, so I tell her I'm giving her a ride home. Once we get to her place, a few blocks away, she tells me she had a good time and we should hangout again, she turns to hug me, we hug. Then she turns to get out the car I say "wait", she turns back around and I kiss her, we kiss twice no tongue. She smiles and says, "talk to you later".

    During the date she told me that her mom and aunt we staying at her place over the weekend and she planned to take them to a comedy show saturday night.

    So we went out last wednesday, there's no contact between us until last night at 8pm when I text her "how was the comedy show?" She has not responded. Was this too long to wait to contact her? A couple times when I texted her/messaged her on tinder she didn't respond until the next day fwiw. She has a early work schedule, up on a train by 5:30am. Also I didn't text her until last night because I was busy with the other girls I'm dating over the weekend and didn't want to bother her while her mom was in town.

    Also when we were figuring when we would meet up, she said "wednesday or next week" it turns out she's going out of town this weekend... so I guess its fair to assume she's seeing other guys this week before going out of town.

    I really want to date this girl, thought the date went well enough for a second date, or even a response to my text. My goal at this point is to get a second date.

    I was kinda shocked that a girl as attractive as her would be on a site like Tinder. Her reasoning for using it was that she's trying to meet new people in the area because she just moved here 2 months ago and its fun to do.

    Is this a lost cause at this point? If she doesn't respond to my text should I try sending something unrelated in a couple days just to get her to respond to me? Call her?

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    blindbat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Advice: Post 1st Date

    Actually I think I screwed up on the date. Didn't create enough attraction. Then sent boring text 5 days later. She's not going to get back to me.

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    EightBall is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need Advice: Post 1st Date

    Quote Originally Posted by blindbat View Post
    Her reasoning for using it was that she's trying to meet new people in the area because she just moved here 2 months ago and its fun to do.

    From what you described it sounds like the date went well, and even with waiting as long as you did to text her shouldn't be that big a deal. The fact that she's using Tinder to meet new people because she just moved there would worry me most. That could mean she's looking for a relationship or just new friends.

    I'd give it a couple days and send her another casual text. If nothing from that then she may be done.

    Hoping for the best man.

    -EightBall


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