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Thread: Urgent help needed!

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    Default Urgent help needed!

    OK, not that urgent, just wanted to get some feedback. So if you are reading this, please take the time to give a reply, short or long.

    This is what I am asking.

    Who reading this sends a "Happy Birthday" text/email/phone call/social media message to an ex?

    I have known her for just over 10 years. We were together for 5. We split up in Summer of 2011. However, were back and forth up until Dec 2012.

    I recently UNblocked her on FaceBook. She added me with 24 hours. We have "liked" and commented on each others updates and sh1t.

    She currently lives 5 hours away. I'm not looking to send a message for a big "THANK YOU". Or to try and work a booty call.

    To be honest, it is more for her. I just creeped her FaceBook and she only has about a dozen or so Bday wishes.

    She has had a rough year. Unfortunately she was sexually and physically assaulted back in Feb/March.

    I just wanna drop her a Bday message. I really think it would put a smile on her face.

    Again, my motive is to do it for her, to brighten up her Bday.

    I was thinking sending a text (a little more personal than FaceBook)

    Alos, do I just to a quick HAPPY BIRTHDAY? Or should I add, "Have fun, keep smiling beautiful" Something like that?

    Any thoughts?

    easyflow.

    On this particular post, I really do appreciate your feedback.

    Thank you

    BTW it is currently 3:45 pm PST (Vancouver)

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    Default Re: Urgent help needed!

    YES ...... send her a text/ FB message ......but also go out, buy a card, do a hand written message and mail it to her ...... i think she'll get a huge kick out of that ..... how many guys send birthday cards !?!?!?!?!

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    Default Re: Urgent help needed!

    Don't over think it, and just do something nice. Not everything has to be thought of in PUA terms. You're simply doing something nice for someone you generally care for, thought ends there. Whether she likes it or not is a different story, but we're not thinking about that. So yes, please do send some sort of message or a card like dragonfire suggested.

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    Default Re: Urgent help needed!

    Calm down there killer. You are setting yourself up for her to Friend Zone you and are already putting yourself in the Nice Guy frame which is OKAY but when it is subtle not overly done. Just flirt, have fun, and be yourself let everything else fall into place. But yes you are overthinking it. Why not tease her about something you already know? Oh but don't forget the Bday just be different how you approach something like that so you stand out. Too many AFC's out there.
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    Default Re: Urgent help needed!

    FYI

    I sent a quick text. Can't remember exactly what it said, involved "Happy Birthday, keep smiling beautiful", or something close to that. She responded with, "Thanks for remembering", "Thank U', "Thank U".

    Again, it was more for her, than me.

    I honestly would have felt kind of douchey if I didn't acknowledge at all.

    Thanks for everyone's feedback.

    easyflow


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