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    Ra1d is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Quote Originally Posted by The Dark Prince View Post
    Thanks for the tips chet25, but the situation's a little different from the last time I posted a reply:

    Since then, I've participated on a photographic project in which a lot of people from where we work were portrayed naked (no problem can come from that, as we're both art students), she was called to participate too but refused to be portrayed due to timidity, then she was clearly impressed to see I accepted and she commented more than once about it to other people in front of me.

    The problem as I see it now is that every time she talked about it I said something like "Wow, I think you're a little too much interested, calm down, huh?" or "Could you stop stalking me, please?", to what people agreed with me, saying "It looks like you're the first of her list" in front of her.

    Now she seems to be trying to act more cautioisly with me while getting closer to other guys, to what I feel I can only respond by kinoing ( I feel like practicing on the other girls, before I start going hardcore on her) and talking to the other girls (I don't want to play the game she's putting up by trying to take her away from the other guys, and I'm getting tired of just playing push and pull).

    I think I have been way too cocky again and pushed her too much away, I might have ruined everything this time.
    Dude,cocky funny is cool,but negging her all the time is not.When you're saying things like "You're talking about it too much" or "Could you stop stalking me",you're scaring her away,because you know her for so long and at this point you shouldn't disqualify yourself as being a potential suitor,you want her and it's been 2 months.

    This was my major problem before I cam across PUA community,I was also going too cocky funny and negging girls most of the time,but you know what happens ?They just stop expecting anything else but those negs from you - turning you into a clown in their eyes.

    A real cocky guy would start escalating fast and taking control of the situation.If you're cocky,put yourself on a pedestal,know that she wants to be with you and start escalating,if you don't have her number,tell her to give it to you,if you haven't been on a date,tell her that you want a date(don't ask - tell),ask her stuff that you want to know,touch her,I don't mean you should grab her ass,take her hand,or go arm in arm,if she refuses - tell her that she's no fun,if she says that you're being too cocky - you respond with "but you love that,don't you ?".

    Everyone experiences anxiety,but if you're cocky funny,you should be cocky not only with your mouth but with your actions too.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    I agree with tominvegas here..david deangelo once said "don't mix your ink in the company's ink" because if you do that..you risk mixing business with pleasure and trust me, you don't wanna do that
    Whether you think you can or you can't either way, you are right-To believe in the heroic makes heroes


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