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    Default Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Hello guys, I've been roaming by the forums for a long time, now I need specific help with a girl from work.

    We've been working together for a month and a half and this work will be over in one month, so I want to get her before this. She is a really nice and funny girl and I haven't had any problems in talking to her or getting close.

    I can kino her normally, as I've been kinoing every girl where I work, including her, from the very start. I' ve been playing cocky and funny with all girls, so it seems realy natural, but I still haven't started to build sexual tension with her.

    She thinks I'm really funny and has given me some IOIs before, but I think it has stopped now, maybe because I might have gone a little too far on the funny thing and might have come as ridiculous. For the cocky part I think it may have come to look as a big joke so maybe she wouldn't take me seriously if I tried to build tension now.

    I'm afraid to going to the friendzone, so I'm thinking about getting away from her for some time to let go of the overfriendly feel and make her feel the need to come talk to me, while that I'm thinking about going hardcore flirty, but not talking to her unless she comes to me.

    I'm really in need of help on how to proceed and any tips.
    Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    You've already established your presence. For now just drop back into the background and do your work/job. You don't want to come off as seperate and needy for attention. Plus it'll make her think "does he really like me?" It'll get her mind racing. So pull back and do you. If she talks to you just say hi and move on. Now it's time to let her chase
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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Thanks Marvilo, gonna do that. I'm just afraid I could already have ruined everything by being too friendly or ridiculous for joking too hardcore, don't know if I should take any measures to straighten things up. I hope my game isn't damaged beyond repair already.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Ok, so I did the usual and let her chase me today, but I can't tell if she was trying to talk to me all the time because she likes me as a friend or if it's because she is interested in me.

    Also I don't know if it would be good to wait till it's near the end of the project we are working in, as trying to get her now and failing would make things awkward where we work until the end of the project.

    I would accept any tips on this, thanks.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Continue to be that mysterious guy, not too much, not too little. One of two things will happen, she will let you know straight up, or she will give you some sort of IOI or the like to get you to engage her, either way shes gonna communicate. You any good at reading body language? propensity? eyes? use your techs bro, she'll come around.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Things are getting tough.

    I have been letting her chase me for some time, then I talk to her, then I let her chase me and so on, and it was going ok until now.

    Now she's not trying so often to talk to me and when I go talk to her we only talk about the things I come up with, she doesn't seem to be interested enough to come up with subjects to talk to me anymore.

    Same thing on facebook, I decided to not inbox her anymore until she starts conversation, but for most I'm lost.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Sexual innuendo's work well in these situations. They show your confident to not worry about social expectations.

    You have to pull them in every once in a while show your slightly interested. Always pushing will make them not interested. It is a balance. To much you are needy and not enough your not alpha enough. That why calibration is such a prominent part of game.

    Playfully put them in the friend zone yourself. Tell her she is not your type. Make her qualify herself and feel good when she validates herself into one of the qualities you seek in a woman. Use phrases like don't let me down. In the qualities you seek, let a girl know you seek one that gets turned on going down on you or something similar.

    Invite her to join you doing some fun activities. Let her warm up to spending a lot of time with you and getting emotionally involved.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Thanks for the tips chet25, but the situation's a little different from the last time I posted a reply:

    Since then, I've participated on a photographic project in which a lot of people from where we work were portrayed naked (no problem can come from that, as we're both art students), she was called to participate too but refused to be portrayed due to timidity, then she was clearly impressed to see I accepted and she commented more than once about it to other people in front of me.

    The problem as I see it now is that every time she talked about it I said something like "Wow, I think you're a little too much interested, calm down, huh?" or "Could you stop stalking me, please?", to what people agreed with me, saying "It looks like you're the first of her list" in front of her.

    Now she seems to be trying to act more cautioisly with me while getting closer to other guys, to what I feel I can only respond by kinoing ( I feel like practicing on the other girls, before I start going hardcore on her) and talking to the other girls (I don't want to play the game she's putting up by trying to take her away from the other guys, and I'm getting tired of just playing push and pull).

    I think I have been way too cocky again and pushed her too much away, I might have ruined everything this time.

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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    Quote Originally Posted by The Dark Prince View Post
    Thanks for the tips chet25, but the situation's a little different from the last time I posted a reply:

    Since then, I've participated on a photographic project in which a lot of people from where we work were portrayed naked (no problem can come from that, as we're both art students), she was called to participate too but refused to be portrayed due to timidity, then she was clearly impressed to see I accepted and she commented more than once about it to other people in front of me.

    The problem as I see it now is that every time she talked about it I said something like "Wow, I think you're a little too much interested, calm down, huh?" or "Could you stop stalking me, please?", to what people agreed with me, saying "It looks like you're the first of her list" in front of her.

    Now she seems to be trying to act more cautioisly with me while getting closer to other guys, to what I feel I can only respond by kinoing ( I feel like practicing on the other girls, before I start going hardcore on her) and talking to the other girls (I don't want to play the game she's putting up by trying to take her away from the other guys, and I'm getting tired of just playing push and pull).

    I think I have been way too cocky again and pushed her too much away, I might have ruined everything this time.
    My advice would be to stop trying to game this girl at all. You could be putting your job in serious jeopardy and its just not worth it. It would be better to just go out after work and game other girls. You will get better faster and you can actually make things happen with the girls you meet.

    If you are serious about gaming this girl, then just ask her out and see what happens. You will never be able to kiss her or anything beyond that in the work environment anyway.
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    Default Re: Help gaming girl from work needed!

    there is and old saying ......DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU SLEEP


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