Re: She sent me this... Help?
Looks like we got a winner, winner winner chicken dinner! Aww dude you're the man! What I mean by saying this is I have rant about how women are predictable and a rant about how women are too complicated. Let's go with the too complicated topic.
Women are too complicated
She played you. Strait up no doubt, sh!t testing little wild one this one. That whole "It's not you it's me, You're a really nice guy but..." was just a line dude to test the metal of your inner man and you failed, like epic fail (she was planning on this happening but hoping you would be different). I have been involved with a girl hung up on her ex and never could get her to forget him but that was then this is now. The key here is "She was waiting" for you to show yourself the man. When she sent you that bogus jazz it was a test to see if you were a Nice Guy who would take her slack or if you would stick up for yourself and "show up" so to speak and flip the script on her (happened so many times, girl tries to next me and I prove her wrong with same BS texts like this). Basically you chickened out and believed every word she said. Remember assumptions are the mother of all screw ups with women and while what they say contains SOME truth you absolutely must take it with a grain of salt.
Pretty much she gave you the Friend Zone yep slapped with the Friend Zone. She is not looking for a relationship but a fun guy to hookup with/friend with benefits. I love being proven wrong because here I thought all women wanted to get married then you get a frisky little fox like this one.
Essentially? Try sexting with her. Break out of the Nice Guy frame by going Alpha/Bad Boy and go for the hookup. Like she said you two are on different pages and the only way to salvage is to plug away a few more times to flip the script 2-3 more texts of attempts to do sexting, hookup, etc.
Basically? She wrote you off but you may want to give it one more shot as she is so willing to put hope in old flames and you are technically an old flame. If she sh!t tests you and says it is over remind her she is so patient with past loves she should be with you..the fun guy. Try it and try to break through.
You can't GET a girl to forget her EX. He will always have more value. But focus on what you CAN do which is replace him. She will always keep bringing it up till you handle it by "hey this is myself, take it or leave it" without being too threatened by it since it is all a game to them and you must play the game by PROVING yourself to her that you will go for what you want and not have your value reduced by the situation but keep escalating the sexual tension which slowly breaks them down. Don't ignore her just don't be AFC due to her behavior. You were threatened by it and played it safe which is why you failed. Don't wait but hit her up again and remember "show up" and go Alpha with your confidence getting up there or she will be right back to shutting you down. Try the fun guy frame and see how she handles that one. Sadly Cocky & Funny is the only way to win with her right now.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.