Re: AFC needing with attraction/meetup with woman who I may have pushed awa
Enjoyed reading but I have a little bit of bad news before I deliver the good news. The bad news is she is not that into and you are kind of fighting a losing battle to getting stuck in the Friend Zone or No Man's Land (Her never responding/silent treatment). The good news is she is still keeping you around and wants to see what you are made of so you HAVEN'T BEEN REJECTED yet.
A few things before I get to your questions. I have tried my run with Church girls and they are a hassle. In fact it was such a hassle it caused me to get into The Game to begin with. Long story short my friend said right before Church "The girls don't want you talking to them, approaching them, or touching them." This was back when I was running Natural Game and got the shaft and in fact had the worst thing happened to me that can ever happen to a male "Not be pre-selected" (most emotionally damaging) Mystery Method has a little speech about Pre-Selection and the girls decided I was not pre-selected it was so dirty it almost scared me for life. Why the girls would tell all the guys that and all the girls that I don't know.
Well I bounced back but not in the way you would expect. I decided "maybe these Church girls ain't feeling me." I was right they weren't. Went up in the Clubs and Bars and now they love me again. My touch is now refined and my game is coming together very well. Not only did this rid me of the Oneitis feeling of rushing into Marriage (scarcity mindset/desperation) but it also helped me realize what is most important to me in life.
It was a hard road but I was the biggest douche in Church making a fool of myself. Not at liberty to discuss at the moment what happened as it was very shady stuff but in the end I leave Church for Church and I still go but not to pick up chicks. I leave that for Gametime in the Clubs, Bars, Water Parks, Amusement Parks, Holiday Events, Pool Parties, and Outdoor Malls my new target rich locals for meeting broads. And it caused my game to hit a new level. Like a ethereal plane or something.
It is unique to hear and while I am too looking for an LTR not until I finish my Outer Game 8 year project. Then when I hit 38 yrs old I will be ready to start seriously seeing someone until then I will live my dreams. I went back to Church and I will start approaching girls again there but very very selectively and only for fun for now as I am not currently ready for an LTR. But I really feel confident as the girls at Church have been flirting with me and asking about me so I may make a move but just for the experience of how to work it with the Church girls since they tend to be more judgemental.
You are in a bit of a Never Ending Story here. A lot of good content and seems like you have a long road ahead with this girl but the key here is don't pay attention to WHAT SHE SAYS but what she does. She said "I am only focused on God blah blah blah" but she is hanging out with you which is a IOI and she was laughing at something you said which shows another IOI after she just gave you that speech then started having fun. Obviously indicating interest in a relationship. BUt the key you have to remember is what women say. The reason she said "Only if you are going for God and not me" is because you were coming on too strong dude. She is getting turned off and using a scapegoat to keep you around but also shut you out. You need to be more mellow and go with the flow kind of guy. If I met a Church girl I would probably roll out differently than I used to being needy and all that crap.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.