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    testin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl from the past...

    Long story short, there is a girl I dated a few months ago.. We only went on two dates over a 6 week span because of conflicting schedules... Anyway this girl was REALLY into me, use to text me 24/7 throughout this time, first date i k-closed and on the 2nd we made out in her car. I should have f-closed that night but i didnt... few days later we were suppose to go out again, but at that point she started to slowly ignore me then completely cut me off and i never heard from her again... i sent a couple texts that week and she never replied... i backed off for a month and sent her a text, she ignored it... now its been 3 months since i last texted her and i get the vibe she hates me because i kept playing games with her via text, i think she just got fed up and is pissed at me... she pulled a full 180 on me...

    How can i get this girl back on talking terms?? All i have is her #, no facebook or any of that... She lives about an hour away too so i wont be running into here anywhere and the distance also didnt help when we dated, then again she is moving closer to town by the end of the year (from what she last told me).

    Is there any type good openers i can use? do i try to call? me and this girl really hit it off so if she gets in talking terms with me i can take it from there... i know the right text and right timing will work wonders

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    Default Re: Girl from the past...

    Call her and start talking. Try not to make it weird or anything. Keep it fun and don't bring up the past. If she does, stay unphased and apologize if you were clearly in the wrong for whatever reason. Then insist that you two meet up and have fun "like old times." There's no real reason to be hung up over this girl, though. If that doesn't work, move on to the next. The worst thing in this world is wasted time
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    testin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl from the past...

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    Call her and start talking. Try not to make it weird or anything. Keep it fun and don't bring up the past. If she does, stay unphased and apologize if you were clearly in the wrong for whatever reason. Then insist that you two meet up and have fun "like old times." There's no real reason to be hung up over this girl, though. If that doesn't work, move on to the next. The worst thing in this world is wasted time
    Yeah it broke me when she first let me go but I got over it and now I'm pretty much at peace with it whether it works or not, I lost her once so I don't really give a shit if I never get her again, although I do want her back. I just don't want to seem beta about it when I apology, what kind of apology would an alpha make when he played too much game on a girl? She just hated when I would ignore her text or take time to reply for one, there were a few things I did also that didn't help but the texting game was pretty obvious... I made her chase/work for me a little too much at times, she would always invest but never suggest a meet up. I think she was kinda sensitive to rejection and all that...

    ANYWAYS, I'll go for the phone call and hope she picks up... If she doesn't, should I bother with one last text?

    I don't know how to prove to this chick that I'd treat her better now without saying it outright and being a chump...

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    Default Re: Girl from the past...

    You're not gonna sound like a chump. Meet up and let her know the deal. MAN UP BRUH
    This isn't even PUA anymore - it's being a person. Get to it
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Girl from the past...

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    You're not gonna sound like a chump. Meet up and let her know the deal. MAN UP BRUH
    This isn't even PUA anymore - it's being a person. Get to it
    I guess you're right and I got nothing to lose really...


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