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Thread: Now she's here now she's not.

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    Default Now she's here now she's not.

    This HB9 that gave me her number a few months ago on facebook (without me asking for it), super cute, the Kylie Minogue type.
    We texted a bit back then but I left it there, I was too busy at the time.
    Today out of the blue she texts:

    Her: Hey you!
    Me (an hour later, cause I had a football game): Evening ma'am.

    End of conversation.

    I see three options here:
    1) Things move fast for HB9s and 10s so she probably sent that text to five other guys and some of them were excited to answer before me.
    2) She's crazy.
    3) She was expecting a naked picture.

    Discuss...

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    Default Re: Now she's here now she's not.

    Haha no dude. She was NOT expecting a naked picture! Don't ever send a naked picture. If you do she will show all her friends and they will laugh.

    She could be crazy...you never really know. That is a possibility with any woman you meet. Once you get with enough women you will get with some crazy ones...then you can spot them from a mile away.

    Number 1 is a possibility in the fact that she sent that same text to multiple guys, but the fact you responded an hour later should not matter at all. It's even better than the other guys that responded immediately like her little puppy.

    You didn't engage her or she was busy and forgot or she didn't get the text at all or she didn't know where to go with it. The possibility's are endless. You cant think for her. Trying to figure out something like that is self defeating.

    You could have taken it literally and had fun with it that way. That could have gotten a response.

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    Default Re: Now she's here now she's not.

    Haha I was definitely being sarcastic with 3).

    And yeah not thinking for her that's for sure. It's just funny it never stops that early usually, what did you mean by taking it literally?

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    Default Re: Now she's here now she's not.

    havn't talked to her in a month or so?
    I'd take it as a sign; she at least was thinking about you. even if she sent the same text to 5 others guys who cares you were on her mind.

    I would personally wait a day or two text her a bit see if any conversation sparks then a day or so later see if she wants to get together.

    I totally agree with the naked picture not being a good idea would of been random.. maybe after a bit of sexting, never just randomly. Honestly, I look at a message and then get busy and completely forget to reply all the time; lots of possibilities.

    But, what do I know? this is my 1st post :P

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    Default Re: Now she's here now she's not.

    You could have charged the response a little bit or called her.looks like you opted for a generic one.

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    Default Re: Now she's here now she's not.

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Haha no dude. She was NOT expecting a naked picture! Don't ever send a naked picture. If you do she will show all her friends and they will laugh.

    She could be crazy...you never really know. That is a possibility with any woman you meet. Once you get with enough women you will get with some crazy ones...then you can spot them from a mile away.

    Number 1 is a possibility in the fact that she sent that same text to multiple guys, but the fact you responded an hour later should not matter at all. It's even better than the other guys that responded immediately like her little puppy.

    You didn't engage her or she was busy and forgot or she didn't get the text at all or she didn't know where to go with it. The possibility's are endless. You cant think for her. Trying to figure out something like that is self defeating.

    You could have taken it literally and had fun with it that way. That could have gotten a response.
    Agree with this advice.

    My guess... She was horny or lonely. Probably wanted validation. I've had girls do that before where they message once every few months, then when I respond, there's no response back.

    An open ended question, "Hey what's up ?" would have given you the best shot IMO

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    Default Re: Now she's here now she's not.

    Update!

    The next day she texts again.

    Her:
    Me: What up trouble?

    And it takes off from there, lots of shit tests that I enjoyed destroying. Later at night she asked where I was which was the problem, she was away at the mountains and I was spinning the decks in the heart of the city...

    I'm going to close this weirdo (who is three years older than me, 28). You got my word boys hah.


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