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Thread: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

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    Default Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    Hey pros,

    I need some help, I go to college and have a hb7 who I emailed her so I could front like I want to help her in her hw for class. I got her number and proceeded to txt her a couple days later. We had a short convo and I invited her to go out wed with my friend and his gf to this dinner and nightclub . She said she had school and work that day so she couldent make it. I proceeded to ask her if she was available thur or Friday. she then said she has busy plans and lives far in Baltimore. I told her too bad we can work something out next week, and Baltimore is not too far for me.
    SO my question: I see her next week in class on Monday, and I don't know how to act, should I flirt with the other hb7 in the class since we sit next to each other and ignore her. or should I take her out during our 20 min break for a mini date. I don't want to come off as needy since I already tried twice to take her out. she seems sort of interested but maybe playing hard to get. Let me know guys I am open to criticism and advice

    Nica

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    Your on the right path in my opinion, you DON'T want to come off as needy, the several failed attempts alone could have forced you into that pocket already. Not that your approach was a mistake, but she may have taken it in a more professional way in the event nothing in addition to homework help was implied. I'm a little more analytical in these types of situations so if she is attracted she may feel like she already has the upper hand.
    I wouldn't chase make her come to you, be professional when she does and don't seem bothered by her inability to hang out upon your offers, play it cool and believe me you'll create enough mystery to make her come around.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    thanks brotha, that is what i was thinking from the failed attempts. I want to keep that mystery aspect and have her come to me which is the most advantagious of the possibilities. SO iI will play it cool and keep it proffessional and cocky funny in class . Thanks for the advice will keep yall posted.

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    Glad to motivate you playa, remember body language, KINO, check for them IOIs, and all in all have fun.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    When I read this all that was running through my mind was NO NO NO. You don't e-mail a girl "fronting" to help her with her homework while having a hidden agenda. That's extremely AFC. You have no chance my man. She already knows you want her and you didn't go about it the right way at all! There's so many things wrong with this that I won't even get into. I'm being brutally honest with you. Do not do this again.

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    Agree with DirectIsBest. Not over but move on to greener pastures. 20 minute break is too short for date. Grab food after class or invite her to a college party is my suggestion

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    Thanks guys for the brutal honesty, that's why I joined. I probably telegraphed too much intrest and I saw her in the elevator today, I said Hi sthen nothing else she asked me a question about what class I was in, I told her. She got off said bye . I will take your guys advice and move on to flirt with other girls in the class ignoring her. If she comes to me great but I see the error in my ways! Thanks guys!!

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    But I don't give up so easily I can bounce back, will take that bet lol

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    One of my friends in game told me "Every failure is a brick in my castle for success." It's a lot of failure, then lots of success! You're on the journey! Love it!

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    Default Re: Need help, so rusty on picking upgirl in class

    Quote Originally Posted by nicanow View Post
    Thanks guys for the brutal honesty, that's why I joined. I probably telegraphed too much intrest and I saw her in the elevator today, I said Hi sthen nothing else she asked me a question about what class I was in, I told her. She got off said bye . I will take your guys advice and move on to flirt with other girls in the class ignoring her. If she comes to me great but I see the error in my ways! Thanks guys!!

    This is an Awesome attitude and will take you far. Realize that she was rejecting your approach, not you. Keep learning and improving, what else is there to do in life anyway ?


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