Girl I met from online Asian HB8. Semi conservative type and by the 2nd date she was at my place, movie watching and I kiss closed her a bunch of times. I stopped and she would continue try to kiss me constantly, feed me popcorn. Eventually this lead out to a heavy make out and I thought I was sealing the deal that night for sure. Every time after I rubbed her thigh, felt her and went for it she would stop me ( take my hand away each time, i tried maybe 2-3 times). Didn't end up getting laid but I'm seeing her again at a party and she def wants to see more and more. We text/phone a lot.
How do I transition with this type of girl? Should I just be more confident and go for it more aggressively? I can't tell if she's not ready, probably playing super hard to get to that final stage with her. I've been teasing her about fifty shades of grey (she read half). This seems easy enough since i've done so much leading up to this.
What would you guys do next time you're alone with this type of girl and she shot you down last date?