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    Default girl with DADDY ISSUES

    As title says, seeing a girl who comes from complicated family. Both mom and dad were alcoholics and drug abusers, her dad died when she was nine. Her mom when she was 26. She openly says she hated her father, but was attached to her mum. Naturally she has daddy issues (absent father symptoms). In our relationship, which was casual sex at first, she didn't trust me, slowly that changed, though even now it sometimes feels like she's reluctant to get attached.
    She drinks, smokes, and goes out frequently, however is childlike, very cuddly and loving, and enjoys feeling protected. Another thing is she's really sexual, and gets off easily -great for me, but puts a question mark in my mind about the monogamist relationship we have. Nonetheless, she says she feels a calm around me, which she doesn't feel around anyone else, and she can't figure out why. Ill add that on top of all this, she's finishing up her degree and has a full time job with a high position at a firm. This girl is a walking paradox.

    All that said, what can I do for her? What do these girls look for in a relationship? I genuinely care for her as a person, but I've never had a situation like this. Also, keep in mind that Im 22 and she's 28.

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    In my opinion, its not about what YOU can do for her in particular, it's about what those before you didn't do. Naturally women have a tendency to relate the past to the present, and if that wasn't the case then they wouldn't be so complex and we wouldn't need forums like this for support and advice. I wouldn't completely say your fulfilling a male role within her life in comparison to her father but I will say since she openly admits hating him there is some sort of distain for men present. Stop trying to figure her out because you seemingly know what you need to know. Comfort, security, loyalty, and most of all companionship is pretty much what women seek, don't disqualify yourself in a solid situation like this, you're still young learn as you go. Keep doing what your doing and if her tone changes talk to her, that's all I can say, lemme know if this helps.
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    Diviouss has this on lock! He got your back with the solid info. I do want to add something though. Don't try to be something you're not. Being you should be enough for her just as her being herself should be enough for you. You're not her father so don't attempt to play that role. Be the best at being you, and grow in each other.

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    Keep doing what you're doing. She wants good sex and to invest in you. When you start treating her special, that's when you'll lose. You'll find that all women (and really people) have issues if they trust you enough to tell you. Women don't want you to solve their problems. They just want to be heard and understood.

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    Default Re: girl with DADDY ISSUES

    Her high level of sexuality is not a reason to be suspicious, but a gift to be cultivated. Give her the best sex of her life - multiple orgasms and more. She will be yours for as long as you want her to be. Learn everything you can from online resources and experiment with her. Older women rock and she is a great age. Enjoy the Experience to the fullest!


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